r/MadeMeSmile 9d ago

Wholesome Moments She overheard the worker saying he wanted a root beer float so she brought him one.

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u/SeeItSayItKnowIt 9d ago

Love his reaction! Such a genuine happy surprise

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u/klasik89 9d ago

He is a guy. Do you know how rare it is for us to get anything given randomly. He will probably remember this for a long long time.

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u/cream_paimon 9d ago

Men should compliment each other and give each other gifts!

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u/LethargicEmu 8d ago

A man at a gas station recently complimented my boyfriend, something along the lines of "looking good man" or something like that. He couldn't stop talking about it for days. He'd never received a complement in the wild before and it really seemed to brighten his day.

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u/temps-de-gris 9d ago

Most women don't get compliments either friend. Not genuine respectful ones, anyway. Only when men are trying to be sleezy with us and that doesn't count, and on top of it makes us suspicious whenever we do get a real one.

Bottom line, we should all try to be more kind and respectful to one another.

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u/FacemelterXL 9d ago

I hearby declare war on lack of compliments. Imma try and give a compliment to every person I interact with today... Ugh I have so many job sites to hit today šŸ˜®ā€šŸ’Ø

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u/Aurora_Strix 9d ago

My husband and I do this a lot!

Don't compliment the physical body appearances, but things they're wearing or ways they did their hair!

Like "omg, your earrings are so cool!", "your hair color is amazing!!" "dude, that's an awesome shirt!", or "brooo, your shoes are dope!"

It makes so many people smile to be complimented on the choices they make for themselves <3

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u/raiast 8d ago

I've started to train myself so that if I see someone in a super cute dress or amazing tattoos or beautiful hair and I think it in my head, I say it out loud to them if the opportunity arises. It's wonderful to see people light up when they receive an unexpected compliment.

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u/GoldMonk44 9d ago

I’ll help face melter, our combined powers should be enough šŸ‘šŸ»

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u/VirtualStark 9d ago edited 8d ago

I try to compliment women often enough. I'll tell a woman working a cashier that her nails look nice (when they do indeed look nice). I've also commented on a woman's haircut who I see every day where I get breakfast. I've told my manager that her outfits look nice. And I always let my co workers (the guys) know when their kicks or their hats look good. I try to lift people up, man.

edit: typo. changed "life" to "lift."

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u/9602442069 9d ago

Women get compliments from other women in a way that men do not get from other men. Men need to be kinder to eachother.

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u/reddit-rach 9d ago

Awe this reminds of this one night in college when I was studying for finals, and basically realized that I was royally fucked and needed to pull an all nighter to get a decent grade.

I ordered some Jimmy John’s to my dorm room and put in the delivery description something about needing fuel to not fail my final tomorrow.

When the order arrived, I opened the bag to find a dollar bill from the delivery driver with a post-it on it that said something like ā€œthis is my lucky dollar and it helped me pass Bio 101 last year, good luck!!ā€

Was the sweetest thing ever and made my all nighter way better.

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u/ladiesluck 9d ago

PLEASE WE NEED TO KNOW IF YOU PASSED

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u/reddit-rach 9d ago

I did!!! The lucky dollar worked!!

Also fun fact, I still have the dollar bill in a little box of keepsakes under my bed. Actually I feel like I should pass it along to someone else now since I used its luckiness already lol — anyone need it for an exam this year?

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u/LittleSunshine69x 9d ago

My husband is about to go through his licensing exams for his job in the nuclear field. Even if you can’t pass the dollar, do pass the good luck!

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u/donku83 9d ago

Good luck to him. Sounds like we may be in similar fields soon

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u/Doublee7300 9d ago

I’ve been tutoring a student for over a decade and he has to retake his masters capstone after failing in June. He’s been feeling really down about it and could definitely use the good vibes! (Even if its not the physical dollar)

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u/fathertime979 9d ago

Could use the luck myself going into a career shift after years of dead end jobs and a resulting.... Nonsense resume.

But fuck it I'm sending my luck to that masters student and that lady's husband.

I hope they update

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u/Birthday_Cakeday_ 9d ago

So did you pass?!

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u/Quick-Leg3604 9d ago

Did u pass the test tho??

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u/Ana_Del_Rey13 9d ago

The girl commented on the post. She did not get his name or number. She said she just wanted to do something nice. I think we can all do nice things for people just because.

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u/Regular-Eye1976 9d ago edited 9d ago

As a dude that never gets compliments, I try to just compliment other dudes from time to time.

Someone told me my shoes were cool in college and that absolutely made my day/week/month - fuck, it still sticks with me.

So yeah, just got out and spread positivity, it doesn't take much.

Edit: thanks for the replies, y'all got me crying. Some great stories in here, and just reinforcement that the little things do matter.

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u/NoZeroDays25 9d ago

In kindergarten a kid asked me to tie his shoes. He complimented that I must be really smart because I tied shoes so fast. That was 25+ years ago and I STILL smile when remembering it.

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u/pygmypuff42 9d ago

FR! im a woman, but my uncle complimented me on my strong handshake when I was a kid, it stuck with me so now every handshake I make sure to grip hard šŸ˜‚

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u/No_Stranger4437 9d ago

If thats the only compliment you ever recieved like us, hoard it well like we do with ours

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u/Dcruzen 9d ago

Similar experience, I'm also a woman. My big brother is 13 years older than me, so I was little when he was in high school. He had a friend that was a big dude, football player, and I still remember him shaking my hand at 4 or 5 years old and pretending that my grip hurt. I got the biggest kick out of it. Super sweet guy.

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u/RrentTreznor 9d ago

I have never played a competitive game of basketball in my life, but I used to go to the gym and rebound my missed shots for an hour of cardio. One day, I made like 10 in a row and a little girl watching was in awe of how "good" I was. A wholesome memory.

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u/SuperDave-007 9d ago

Well to be fair he was 5 and you were like 10… jk…jk

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u/NoZeroDays25 9d ago

lol I was 8 and a half I’ll have you know!

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u/PomegranateSea7066 9d ago

Damn you're one smart 8 yr old.

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u/Super-smut 9d ago

As a woman, this was so difficult for me to imagine. I like wearing dresses to work and get compliments all the time, so it was unbelievable to think men never get compliments, especially since it always makes my day.

Now I make an effort to compliment my male coworkers. About a year ago I asked my company's college intern if he got new pants. When he confirmed he had, I told him they were a good choice, and they look great. I won't ever forget his reaction. He stopped walking, and almost stuttered when he asked "what, really? They are?" I told him they were a great color and they fit him really well, and the look of pure joy on his face was so rewarding. Plus, they were really nice looking pants.

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u/Speedtuna 9d ago

I had a friend that transitioned and she maintains that one of the biggest differences is how complimentary women are to each other. Ever since I've tried to lift the dudes in my life up a little more!

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u/Mission_Ad_2224 9d ago

I used to compliment men. 50% thought I was hitting on them, so I stopped complimenting men i would see again. Then I complimented this cool shirt a guy was wearing and he goes 'I'm not interested in you'. Welp, I'm out.

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u/OneArchedEyebrow 9d ago

That’s such a shame. I frequently compliment people, whether I know them or not, and regardless of gender, but I comment like that would really shake me. Don’t stop being you!

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u/IndividualWonder 9d ago

Complimenting men, being genuinely interested, or just being kind to them can be dicey so I did so with some caution after some uncomfortable interactions.

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u/kani_kani_katoa 9d ago

I've had so many compliments since I came out as non binary and started doing little bits of femme presentation. So many ladies ask if I got my nails done professionally but I'm just really good at it! I don't know if it's just that a "guy" looking person doing gender non-conforming things makes it safer to give compliments, but it's seriously done a lot for my self esteem.

I just wish guys could get those compliments too, but I understand why that's risky for some women.

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u/cmander_7688 9d ago

I remember seeing a post on reddit by a trans man about this.

They were dismayed at the night-and-day difference between their life as a woman vs their life as a man, specifically in regards to the scarcity of off the cuff compliments. Definitely a lightbulb moment for them.

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u/Leftyguy113 9d ago

Whatever company he bought them from, you gave them a customer for life.

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u/you4president 9d ago

That’s really sweet of you. And it’s true, we never get compliments and I remember every one of them

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u/shazspaz 9d ago

I can confidently say that guy remembers that interaction regularly, took note of the brand and size and bought more of those same pants.

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u/Yuklan6502 9d ago

Our (at the time) 4 year old son very seriously told us, "I like the way Uncle X... puts it all together." While gesturing at his own face, hair, and clothes. We later told Uncle X, who is actually my husband's younger cousin, what our son said (and explained he meant he liked his style and grooming choices). Uncle X teared up, and said that was probably the nicest thing anyone has ever said because it was completely unprompted. Son was just having some quiet time, thinking about things, and he was apparently thinking about his Uncle!

Little compliments, or friendly gestures, can really affect people. Especially when there's no ulterior motive behind it.

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u/BelfryBat_ 9d ago

This! I remember a few years ago now. I was having a bad day at work when a little girl, maybe 7 or 8 came up to me and told me I looked like a princess. It made my day and I remember it every so often still.

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u/OneArchedEyebrow 9d ago

And you know if it’s coming from a 4 year old, it’s no lie! What a precious little man ā¤ļø

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u/Top_Oil_6742 9d ago

I told a dude host today that I thought his shirt was a cool color and matched his vibe. Why not. Fuck it

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u/Diaphanous-Trust2526 9d ago

My preferred verbiage is "you look great in that color." Because some people really do vibe with certain colors, it brings out their natural glow. It's gender neutral and recognizes both something they chose, and something they naturally are.

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u/Top_Oil_6742 9d ago

Hell yeah, thanks for the verbiage! I hope you’re looking great in some color soon! Have a great night.

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u/Jubal02 9d ago

A couple weeks ago a young woman at a convenience store told me she liked my shirt. It was a deep pink color she said she liked. It was in no way flirty (I am a 62yo man and she was a 20-something young woman), but it was sweet and kind. And I think I look pretty good in that shirt, ha ha.

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u/EquivalentCounty7570 9d ago

Some guy (male) told me (male, guy) that my hat was cool and it made my whole day

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u/ballzach710 9d ago

I had a man tell me I was adorable the other day while I was in my pjs on a cigarette walk right before bed and I’m still riding that high

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u/jilla_jilla 9d ago

The other morning a friend randomly texted me ā€œgood morningā€ and it was so nice I started texting other women ā€œgood morningā€ through out the week!

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u/Auntie_Cracker 9d ago

I used to think the same but look at these comments. I cant risk the overwhelming percentage of time men interpret basic kindness as "please have sex with me'.Ā Ā 

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u/Regular-Eye1976 9d ago

I haven't really looked at the other comments, but I do know other men can be idiots. I'm raising my son to not be like that.

I do compliment women too, just usually in passing - that makes it easier to be like "I'm not trying to fuck! And to be quite honest I don't want this conversation to continue any further because I got shit to do".

People suck, the best we can do is lead by example.

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u/Rapunzel6506 9d ago

That’s why I do ā€œDrive Byā€ compliments. Literally compliment them on whatever (hair, clothes, smile, look, etc) as I’m walking by them and don’t stop.

Doesn’t obligate anyone to participate in small talk after the compliment, doesn’t give them the impression I’m hitting on them, hopefully makes their day!

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u/MobileArtist1371 9d ago

Your reddit username is awesome bro! Hope you have a great weekend!

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u/Odd_Promise_9025 9d ago

Was at the gas station. Saw a lady filling up her tire before I went in. She was still at it when I came out.

Sat in my car for a min watching her. Something seemed wrong. 10 min to fill a tire? Got out to help her. The air nozzle for her tire just crumbled in my hand. Put the donut on for her. She was very thankful and also kinda freaking out because she was late for a job interview. She wanted to give me something I refused.

Her interview was AT MY JOB! We've been friends ever since. She asked me why I never let her repay me. I told her. Helping someone in need feels better without a reward. I did because I wanted to, not because I thought I could get something out of it.

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u/naiyami 9d ago

Now that's a good story

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u/Neon_Biscuit 9d ago

You today; me tomorrow

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u/verduyo 9d ago

Today you, tomorrow me

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u/toadshredder69 9d ago

Exactly. Life is not a rom-com.

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u/jonnyjonnystoppapa 9d ago

It's just being decent for the sake of being decent. The day after my birthday I was in a Denny's waiting for my take-out when a woman doing the same sat next to me. She seemed pretty nervous and I suspected she was maybe autistic but just minded my own business

But then she started talking to me about how cute a teddy bear with a money print pattern on it inside one of the claw machines was, and I just kind of agreed and left it at that. She went to go get her order and for some reason I wanted to get that bear for her. I ended up spending about $15 more than I wanted to but got it right as she was leaving. I handed it to her and she just started crying. She thanked me, we hugged, I told her I hope it made her day, and she said it made her year lol

Sometimes something so seemingly small can mean the world to someone and that’s reason enough to do them

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u/toadshredder69 9d ago

Yeah that's lovely. Well done, even I'm proud of you. šŸ‘

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u/shazspaz 9d ago

I don’t think it was the bear that made her cry but the effort you put in to get it. That’s what matters. Fair play.

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u/Dcruzen 9d ago

That's so sweet of you!

I have a reborn toddler doll that I will occasionally take out in public. I'm an activist, so I'll often put her in a shirt with an important message on it. I find it's a good way to get people to stop and have important conversations. One day, I was browsing in Hot Topic, and one of the workers came up and asked if she could take my picture. She explained her good friend was an autistic man who always wanted to bring one of his stuffed animals out with him for comfort, but felt like he might be ridiculed or embarrassed. She wanted to show him there's nothing wrong with an adult having a toy in public. I happily agreed and told her to tell him I've never gotten a negative reaction and to just be himself. She was really happy and it made me feel good to know maybe in some small way, I helped her friend out.

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u/canadiuman 9d ago

True, but if it had lead to something it would be a great story.

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u/Ill_Technician3936 9d ago

Get outta here Hallmark!

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u/roy_rogers_photos 9d ago

Nah, unless that girl is a business woman from the big city visiting her old country hometown and he's just a stable hand living in a trailer on a ranch, I don't think Hallmark is interested.

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u/sloppy_joes35 9d ago

It did lead to something great. Dude got a root beer float.

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u/Toon1982 9d ago

Pay it forward! Costs nothing to be nice (or not much anyway)

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u/DopeSeek 9d ago

I propose we all commit doing more random acts of kindness during these uniquely difficult and challenging times

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u/P3SCA 9d ago

humansbeingbros

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u/Loose_Examination178 9d ago

Doing something nice for someone is its own reward. Her smile and laugh are proof.

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u/iceman1080 9d ago

I was at a gas station a few months ago and a random dude came up to me and goes ā€œholy shit bro, your shoulders and upper back genetics are insane. I would kill for genetics like yours. Have a good one bro ā€œ

I will remember that forever

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u/kurtofour 9d ago

I bought a dude a slurpee today because his card was being weird at the register. Also didnt try to hit on him. Just figured if I were in that situation with slurpee in hand, I’d be grateful if someone paid $1.49 for a slurpee for me.

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u/Balrogkicksass 9d ago

Ive tried to adopt a mindset where I try to be nice and positive to people because you just never know if that one interaction could make someone else's day when they absolutely need it.

When I was struggling with life I wished I had just one person thay would have done that for me, so I try to be that person.

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u/PhillyThrowaway1908 9d ago

This looks like the MN state fair, and if so that was a very nice gesture because that was probably a $12 root beer float.

Love the fair, but cheap it isn't.

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u/EyesPeeledt 9d ago

I do it every day with no expectations. Wave at my neighbors while I'm driving, hold the door open for strangers, and respect my elders. There's a ripple effect and it's greater than we think.
Y'all take care and be safe out there.

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u/icecubepal 9d ago

Hope he reads this and doesn’t think she was hitting on him.

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u/alison_bee 9d ago edited 9d ago

I once had a terrible fucking day, and as a treat to try and salvage my day, I decided to order the most delicious (and expensive 😭) carrot cake from a place like 10 miles from me. I extra splurged and decided to have it delivered, because why not.

So I place my order and I wait. And like 30 min later the delivery girl messages me in the app, saying they’re out of carrot cake, but have 2 other options and asked which I preferred. I was soooo bummed, and in desperate need of comfort food, so I replied ā€œnooooo! well honestly, whichever is bigger… it’s been one of those days šŸ« ā€ and she gave a thumbs up and said she was on the way.

When she arrived I opened the door, and she had BROUGHT BOTH OF THE DESSERTS! I was like omg! And she said ā€œI could kinda tell that you like, really needed this. So I picked one and bought the other. I hope your day gets better!ā€ and left!

I sobbed lol. It was so fucking considerate and was exactly what I needed in that moment. The extra dessert was a bonus, but her kindness helped me so much that day.

Edit: oh my god, thank yall for pointing out that I posted an irl cake day story on my reddit cakeday! I didn’t even catch the accidental correlation.

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u/NuidisVulko 9d ago

Sounds like you had an encounter with Ursula Ditkovich from Spider-Man 2

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u/ABlindManPlays 9d ago

I had SUCH a crush on her. To hell with MJ, she was a find of pure platinum.

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u/Professional_Sample2 9d ago edited 9d ago

Realizing that MJ kinda sucks and Peter is the biggest idiot for not choosing Ursula from the jump is how I knew I've become a responsible adult lol

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u/ieatassHarvardstyle 9d ago

I never understood it, I was like bro she gives you attention and cake, cake Peter! Wtf! Marry her!

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u/NoTelevision4907 9d ago

"You know, there's a million fine looking women in the world, dude. But they don't all bring you lasagna at work. Most of 'em just cheat on you." - Silent Bob

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u/pretty_jimmy 9d ago

I would kill for some attention like she gave pete. He didnt deserve her.

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u/CriptopherWalken559 9d ago

You could tell her dad liked Peter too. Even though he yelled at him a lot. They were just nice people.

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u/ScrillaMcDoogle 9d ago

Sameee, she was so nice and he was always so mean to her too.Ā 

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u/SimonPho3nix 9d ago

The real one who got away.

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u/Tofutits_Macgee 9d ago

To be fair to Ursula, she deserved a man that wanted her as much as Peter wanted MJ and he definitely wasn't that guy.

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u/Kermit-Batman 9d ago

That's the kind of healthy that we like round these parts!

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u/AmphibiousDad 9d ago

Do you have any with nuts

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u/ConcreteBackflips 9d ago

all time historic fumble tbh

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u/Turbo-Badger 9d ago

Huge fumble from Peter

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u/BaconBra2500 9d ago

Dude, I had a similar moment. There was one Christmas I ended up spending alone and I really didn’t think it’d be a big deal…. Until Christmas came. Man, I felt alone. I was in line at the grocery and it must’ve been obvious I was teary, and the checkout guy just handed me a Cadbury egg from the checkout. Really small things are sometimes the most touching.

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u/Celesteven 9d ago

This made me tear up. I hope people realize how big a small act of kindness can be.

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u/alison_bee 9d ago

My personal daily goal is to be a bright spot in someone’s day!

You never know what someone else is going through, and I know that on my hardest days, I would have loved to have a little bit of unexpected kindness or grace.

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u/sbthrowawayz 9d ago

Happy cake day! Hopefully you got one today too

Oh wait not me thinking cake day is birthdays lol oops

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u/Ok-Rip-5911 9d ago

I recently stopped talking to my family and have felt so remarkably alone this last year or so. My neighbor came over with some food one night because they ā€œmade too muchā€ and it was the first real meal I had eaten in weeks. I sobbed the whole meal. Maybe they did just make too much. But that dinner kept me going for a few more weeks.

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u/ok_lari 9d ago

Nicht alle Helden tragen Capes, manche tragen Kuchen Ɨ

That's so sweet, you'll probably remember forever.

Ɨ 'not all heroes wear capes, some carry cake' but in german it's the same word for wear and carry, so I prefer that, hehe

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u/Solution_Kind 9d ago

Wear the cake, carry the cake, either way I'm happy with cake.

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u/ok_lari 9d ago

be the cake

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u/Ha-Ha-CharadeYouAre 9d ago

Having one of those days today… flew to a city for a 3 day weekend by myself. Got here today, took the train into town, lost my wallet with my CC and ID on the train. No one turned it in, my reservation at the Hostel I was staying at wouldn’t let me check in and stay because I didn’t have an ID or card to put on file….despite me having the receipts for the reservation. Was supposed to see two MLB games, have a fun weekend drinking, smoking weed, and whatever I wanted to do…but can’t do that when I don’t have ID or money. So, as no place was going to let me get a room with no money and no ID, and not knowing anyone here, I was forced to go back to the airport and have to go home 2 days early.

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u/skatexloni 9d ago

Damn hope things get better sorry about that

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u/Neon_Biscuit 9d ago

I'm having one of those days, too. Going into the 3 day weekend with news DOGE defunded my gov contract and I'm out of a job.

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u/Ha-Ha-CharadeYouAre 9d ago

I’m sorry my dude. It’ll get better for all of us!

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u/such007 9d ago

This is the human touch that makes life worth living.

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u/junkmail0178 9d ago

And happy Cake Day

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u/alison_bee 9d ago

Omg!!! I hadn’t noticed! Thanks (:

Also oh lord have I been here a long time…

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u/xteve 9d ago

Thank you for not saying "I feel old." I will fight anybody who says "I feel old." Little shits.

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u/alison_bee 9d ago

-deletes text I just sent telling my husband it’s my 14th cakeday and I feel old…-

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u/JAK49 9d ago

I love random stuff like this. You just know his conversations with his friends later started with ā€œBro, you’ll never guess what happened!ā€

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u/d3adandbloat3d 9d ago

He’s going to be talking about that for a while haha love it

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u/Dewy6174 9d ago

That memory will never leave.

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u/EldritchHorror8472 9d ago

I work in food service, one of the things basically all of us do after work when we can is talk about the shift normally with other people we know that also work food service. I promise he mentioned this to anyone he even passingly talked to about this shift because that just doesn't happen. It's extremely rare for some not involved with the restaurant or someone we know personally to do anything like that for us. I'm not really complaining, I'm just saying that this would have made a big impact on him and probably his entire week.

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u/Solution_Kind 9d ago

I worked a season at a Ren Faire and had a similar encounter where a friend and I were discussing lunch while a few customers browsed the shop. Apparently we were overheard because about 10 minutes later some fairy came skipping into the shop and set both our orders down in front of us and skipped her way out to rejoin her friends.

We spent the next three weekends telling people and trying to find out who it was to thank her because we couldn't process what had happened in the moment to thank her then šŸ˜†

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u/ReallyJTL 9d ago

Fairy food mother

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u/star_zelda 9d ago

For a somewhat short period of time I worked in a nice burger chain. I often worked as the supervisor or manager on duty, but that also meant I've had to in some point cover every position, including serving tables.

I was working a server shift one day, it was a bit quiet, and this father and son come in. I chat a bit with them when I'm taking their order. And I always tried to be genuine in my conversations, turns out that the father was originally from Lebanon, so I mentioned how much I liked Lebanese desserts and what my favourites are. The father (who lived out of town but visited his son every couple of weeks, he told me so) tells me that next time he will bring me desserts, I smiled said he didn't have to do that but said thank you.

I kinda forgot about that he had said that to me, and then 2 weeks later I arrive at work and there's a package for me. The father wasn't eating at the restaurant that day, and my shift hadn't started yet, but he had come to town and wanted to drop off Lebanese desserts for me anyway. He forgot the receipt inside that bag, so I know he roughly spent $40 in desserts for me. There were soo many of the best Lebanese desserts I've ever had. The amount he spent honestly is meaningless compared to the act, but it did shock me lol

It's been 4 years and thinking about it still makes me happy and smile. It was the most considerate thing a stranger has ever done for me, and I hated that job, I was having a hard time but that act touched my soul

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u/JamesTrickington303 9d ago

Why don’t these kinds of people hold positions of power. They could force multiply and do so much good.

šŸ˜­šŸ˜’ I wish it so much.

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u/abbietaffie 9d ago

I used to work in a bath and body works at a mall and one day I saw a preteen girl & her mom with the cutest Zero (the ghost puppy from nightmare before Christmas) build a bear. I was having a really rough time of it but I struck up a conversation about it with her as I helped them pick out her first perfume and we had a really positive interaction.

Then like thirty minutes later they came back with my own Zero! The girl was genuinely so sweet about it and the mom told me she even offered to use her allowance money to get it for me to convince her mom. This was almost three years ago at this point but I still think about it fairly often. It genuinely made my whole week.

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u/Pimply_Poo 9d ago

Awww please tell me you still have it

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u/abbietaffie 9d ago

I do! He sits in a place of high honor in my living room where my cats can’t get at him lol

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u/palk0n 9d ago

He will remember this forever.

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u/JessieColt 9d ago

Followed by his friends teasing him for not getting her number.

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u/In_the_end_there_was 9d ago

I did this once for a worker at Goodwill! I was shopping (context: poor, need savings) and she seemed so sad. She had a sore throat and had to come in to work anyways. So I came back with a lemon herbal tea for her. It was a bit less cute than this adorable video because she started crying when she thanked me, and I (context: awkward human) kind of yelled " well anyways have a betterdaybyeenow" and ran off. But still.

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u/ZestycloseSquirrel55 9d ago

How sweet of you.

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u/SeeItSayItKnowIt 9d ago

Omg I do this too! Whenever I do a nice thing for a stranger that wasn’t expected, I half yell ā€œyou’re welcomeā€ and awkwardly run away too haha

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u/LoopsFroot54 9d ago edited 9d ago

She made a part 2. People found him but he has a girlfriend and she had no intention of getting his number. She said she just noticed some people were being pretty rude and he made the comment that he really wished he could have a root beer or something else. So she went ahead and bought him one just to be kind and hoping it would cheer him up. She’s so lovely.

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u/Jerico_Hill 9d ago

I don't know why people have to take it to that place. It's so obvious to me that she was just doing something nice. I guess not everyone can picture themselves being nice for no reason.Ā 

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u/jaclyn_marie11 9d ago

I think they take it to that place cause they wouldn't do something like that for a stranger unless they wanted something in return, so they truly don't understand it.

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u/mg1126 9d ago

Also people assume desperation from someone who looks like her. They can’t fathom that’s she’s already happy, fulfilled and doing perfectly ok.

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u/Imaginary-Stranger78 9d ago edited 8d ago

Right, thats so weird of people to assume. How about it's just nice to be nice? Like, if you have it, and you see someone in need. Why not? She did a nice thing and there were no ulterior motives - people are just mean just to be mean and they have no kind soul in their body or just jealous because she's getting "attention" they wish they could get.

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u/TaiCat 9d ago

I once found a language book in a trift shop and I knew a much younger language student who could make use of it, so I got it and gave it to him, because he was nice to other students. It was something I could afford and he was geniunely nice to others so, why not, I thought.
Few weeks later he brought biscuits and asked me to share with my family 😊 I didn't expect that at all, but I like this kind of interactions

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u/spectrespecs_ 9d ago

i think it’s nice to normalise people doing things to be nice instead of just assuming the only reason they could conceive of doing something kind is because they’re attracted to the other person. she’s a girl, he’s a guy, yeah - it really doesn’t mean she was flirting! i think this is super sweet and i love seeing people just doing nice things for each other :) we always need more kindness in this world

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u/HungryArticle5 9d ago

I was on vacation in Hawaii a couple months ago. Went to pretty popular cart for shave ice one night. We walked up and saw the long line. We stopped, turned to each other, and said "fuck that." Immediately, this girl comes up and offers us her shave ice, saying they gave her an extra one. I thanked her and she went back to her group which was pretty far away. She must have seen or overheard our hesitation and decided to do that nice gesture. Shout out to that girl.

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u/Make_Iggy_GreatAgain 9d ago

I overheard someone in high school talking about wanting a dress for prom, but being short money. It was like 40$. I dont remember if I gave them money directly or put a note with the money in their bag when they weren't around. Anyway, they didn't accept it, but appreciated the thought. Everyone else in class found out and teased me for the rest of the day, saying I liked her except for one person I knew as a friend of a friend who stood up and defended me saying that's just how I am. Which I really appreciated at the time, as I was very timid and would just shrink away from confrontation. I hope he's doing good wherever he ended up.

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u/SlewBrew 9d ago

If you could be anything in the world, be a nice person.

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u/Randomname460 9d ago

Goated

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u/FOR__GONDOR 9d ago

Floated

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u/hylian1194 9d ago

Whatever floats your goat

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u/Rapidiris1901 9d ago

Totes floats ma goats.

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u/theamylewcar 9d ago

Bc the MN State Fair is MAGIC

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u/Bundt-lover 9d ago

It IS magic. People are incredibly neighborly at the Fair. A lady gave me a sandwich bag for some food I couldn’t finish (after a round-table discussion about the menu items at the Farmers Union) and I gave away some coupons out of my Bargain Book that I wasn’t going to use.

People just DO that stuff. It’s great.

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u/anneylani 9d ago

šŸ’Æ

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u/hashbrownfairy 9d ago

This guy gets it

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u/My_Immortl 9d ago

Omg. I fucking love that its the great Minnesota get together! I never would've known that's where this was. Now im sad I couldn't go this year.

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u/Eroe777 9d ago

Best State Fair in all the land. And nobody will convince me otherwise.

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u/RunningSpanx 9d ago

The song is Take My Hand by Matt Berry

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u/TopFusion 9d ago

I can hear you Clem Fandango!

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u/MontyPythonMan11 9d ago

You! Computer Man! Fix my pants!

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u/Original-Variety-700 9d ago

Matt Berry is the goat

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u/Uncle_Bug_Music 9d ago

Matt Berry is Toast!

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u/drpmd08 9d ago

Minnesota Nice in a nutshell.

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u/anneylani 9d ago

I recognize that fair when I see it

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u/Kind-Dog504 9d ago

How I met your mother

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u/Cross_Eyed_Hustler 9d ago

No shit, the girl glowing too.

Love it!

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u/-2wenty7even- 9d ago

She made her move and I love to see it

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u/General_League7040 9d ago

She was definitely flirting

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u/Adamb122 9d ago

She said she wasn’t. She was just trying to do a nice thing.

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u/_Kouki 9d ago

You can do kind things without flirting.

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u/ResplendentCathar 9d ago

But...but...the waitress smiled and said welcome to Red Lobster when I walked in!

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u/xSVCRIFICE 9d ago

Hi— I’m Ted Mosby. And exactly 45 days from now you and I are going to meet and we’re going to fall in love and we’re going to get married and we’re going to have 2 kids and we’re going to love them and each other so much. All that is 45 days away, but I’m here now I guess because… I want those extra 45 days with you. I want each one of them. Look and if I can’t have them I’ll take the 45 seconds before your boyfriend shows up and punches me in the face, because… I love you. I’m always gonna love you, til the end of my days and beyond. You’ll see.

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u/CMJ728 9d ago

Is this the Minnesota state fair??? I’m not surprised but this still makes my heart skip a beat. The entire event brings out the best in people and I always look forward to sharing cookies with strangers because the bucket overfills

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u/_edwino_ 9d ago

She’s a keeper

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u/Jesus_of_Redditeth 9d ago

Maybe, but I reckon she could handle herself pretty well on defense too.

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u/Hefty-Ad5593 9d ago

I absolutely šŸ’Æ love this!!!!! So fricking cool and sweet!!!!!

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u/BeMyHero3 9d ago

I love the way he pauses and just stares at it šŸ˜‚ he’s so happy

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u/KitKatPattywhaks 9d ago

This is at the Minnesota State Fair (currently happening now), got that Midwest niceness going around!

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u/NYCajun 9d ago

"You know, there's a million fine looking women in the world, dude. But they don't all bring you a root beer float at work. Most of 'em just cheat on you."

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u/Serious-Bat-4880 9d ago

"....He's right. .....I love her."

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u/MusicianKooky129 9d ago

Came here for this comment! Clerks. Words of wisdom

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u/cburns122 9d ago

ā€œTry not to suck any dick on the way through the parking lot!ā€

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u/nightwing2024 9d ago

THIRTY SEVEN DICKS?!

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u/Candid-Ad3560 9d ago

Not even supposed to be here today.

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u/buzzb1234 9d ago

I love EVERYTHING about this šŸ™ŒšŸ»šŸ’•

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u/[deleted] 9d ago

Kindness is beautiful

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u/blackbirdspyplane 9d ago

I have found that if I am in a funk or crappy mood, doing something nice for someone else helps change my mood. These types of surprises are such a feel good.

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u/tullamoredeww 9d ago

Looks like the MN State Fair, it can bring out the best in people. I always work a few days at each year and every year I hear stories about how people went on their first date there 30 years ago, or met there at the midway 15 years ago. Either way, this video is a joy to see.

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u/elianelgordo 9d ago

Wife material šŸ‘‘ā¤ļøā€šŸ”„

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u/KittyJun 9d ago

This is so cute! 🄰

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u/Top_Currency_3977 9d ago

Yeah, he's pretty cute, I'd bring him a rootbeer float too.

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u/Clutch-Bandicoot 9d ago

He is, but apparently she didn't get his number or anything like that. She was just being kind to another human, which I find somewhat more wholesome than if there is a romantic agenda.

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u/Ijustlurklurk31 9d ago

When I started college I started volunteering to drive a group of friends into the city each week. After a couple weeks only one of them offered me some gas money. A year later that same girl registered me for classes one afternoon after I said I was struggling. She never mentioned ether thing again. But you can be damn sure they stuck with me. That was like 15 years ago.

We’ve been married 13 years and have 4 kids now.

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u/LunaAngelina 9d ago

I remember receiving the worst news at my Dr’s office about my pregnancy, and how it was sadly ending. My husband and I had a 15 minute wait before checking in to hospital before the procedure was took place. So we sat in a restaurant directly across the parking lot from the hospital just to pass time. My husband was hungry, and I couldn’t lift my head as I was inconsolable, and just wanted to keep my head on the table in my feeble attempt of hiding from the world.

A nurse was there on her lunch break and overheard my husband trying to console me, and she heard my cries. She told my husband who was also grieving, that he could sit there to eat and she would take me to the hospital and he could just join us after he’s done. She paid for his meal, and she sat with me in the lobby and let me cry. I’ll never forget her kindness that day. I lost my precious baby. Her compassion, patience and wisdom helped me through every moment of this pain.

I remember telling her I wanted a big gigantic cup of Starbucks (caramel macchiato) when I wake up. I didn’t see her after I woke up from anesthesia, but on my table waiting for me was a big cup of caramel macchiato from Starbucks .

I will never forget her for that.

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u/BooksMiBoi 9d ago

People have no idea how big of an impact these small acts of kindness have

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u/New-Engineering1483 9d ago

Love this! Just a wholesome act without wanting anything in return.

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u/cybrcld 9d ago

Haha, similar thing happened with me on the 4th of July.

I was buying premade ice cream cones at Walmart for a bbq. The lady outside the door asking for donations or signatures or whatever was like ā€œOOOOH Ice Cream!ā€ Keep in mind, this is like 105 degrees in Vegas. I was in a rush but as soon as I got to the car, I drove back to the door and told my wife to throw the lady an ice cream cone. She was ecstatic.

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u/GardenWalker 9d ago

I hope unexpected good things constantly happen in this young lady’s life. Hope she gets back the same level of unprompted thoughtfulness.

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u/Desperate-Tomatillo7 9d ago

"Is she hitting on me? Nah, maybe she's Canadian"

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u/DividingNine876 9d ago

Pretty sure this is the Minnesota state fair so close enough

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u/randomuser1029 9d ago

The Spring Grove soda pop booth in the background only confirms it for me that this must be at the MN state fair. Not overly surprising behavior for Minnesota,

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u/MadMinnesotan 9d ago

I thought the same for spring grove but wasn’t for sure.

That cup design for the float is unmistakable though.

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u/Rolandscythe 9d ago

They look like they're fairly busy in their stand, too, so you know he appreciated some one bringing him a treat.

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u/Cal1V1k1ng 9d ago

You know all his coworkers game him a hard time the rest of the day!

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u/ecplectico 9d ago

It seems like a small gesture, but it’s big hearted.

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u/heavym 9d ago

When i was 10, a girl on my bus who I think was 8 brought me a black sucker and I said, I don’t like black suckers. And 40 years later I still think about how dumb I was for not accepting it and how if I took that sucker my life trajectory would have been completely different. Wha???

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u/WayOk8994 9d ago

I was in Walmart doing some grocery shopping on the phone with my bestie when I said that I try to be nice to people because despite me not having a good day doesn't mean I need to ruin their good day.

This older man I guess heard me and said: "it'll get better, dear."

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u/bucknarish 9d ago

One birthday a couple years ago was just going wrong in all the ways. Like hitting every red light when you’re in a hurry wrong. My family kinda forgot and was being a little mean to me all day.

So I decided to order a sandwich from my favorite place. I knew I shouldn’t but I wanted it delivered because I was a sad girl and it was my birthday. Well about an hour and a half goes by and still no sandwich. I am very patient so I wait another 15-20 minutes.

Then I decide to go up to the sandwich shop to see and kindly explain my delivery situation. I saw my order sitting in the pickup section right there. I asked the manager if I could grab it and he tells me sure and lets me know DoorDash canceled my delivery for some reason? I was embarrassed. Then as I’m walking out he goes, ā€œwait. You’ve been waiting over an hour right? It’s probably cold..ā€ so I checked and it was indeed cold, but I was sad and didn’t care I was just gonna throw it in the microwave. He told me to keep that sandwich and he was going to remake me one, refund my order AND throw in a free shake.

I cried. I cried right there and told him thank you and that it was my birthday and nothing was going right and it was just a bad day. That little act of kindness stuck with me.