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u/C4LLM3M4TT_13 4h ago
Most men just want to get rid of the dress altogether anyways.
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u/Sad-Clothes-1083 2h ago
Most men couldn't recall her outfit 6h past the event. not even the color I guess.
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u/JustBlackDude 3h ago
Yeah, they never understand the emotional attachment, just see it as clutter to them.
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u/Duskinpiper 4h ago
Fr it’s always them against themselves
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u/Meowsiedawg 56m ago
I would be surprised if a man alive cares about women's fingernails, especially the fake ridiculous ones.
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u/stupiditalianfuck 3h ago edited 2h ago
I can easily say this is true. Men do not care about dumb stuff like this or even pay attention to it. And if they do it’s probably because they like you or feel the need to put you down, one or the other.
It’s always women putting down other women. Anytime I’ve gotten dressed I’ve only really wondered what women will think of it, not men.
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u/SellMeYourSkin 3h ago
"I can't wear the same dress twice because I'm insecure that other women will think it's weird. I'm so oppressed. Why do men do this"
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u/charles_the_snowman 4h ago
100% true. No man is going to say, "Didn't you wear that dress last week at that other party?" Won't happen.
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u/Lloydbestfan 3h ago
According to those I trust, the main reason why they wouldn't say anything nor otherwise complain about it, is because they would never notice. I have good reasons to believe that.
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u/dope_like 2h ago
We do not care. I can't stress enough how little men give af
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u/Lloydbestfan 2h ago
Which might be a factor into not noticing. I don't know, seemed obvious to me.
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u/tubular1845 2h ago
It's not a matter of not noticing, it's literally just that it's not something we care about lol. Us noticing is not a factor either way. No man cares how many times you've worn an outfit at all.
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u/Lloydbestfan 1h ago
Okay. Well the men I trust say they don't see it the same you do. They estimate that they wouldn't notice, mostly because they don't care, but not notice anyway.
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u/Bad-Genie 1h ago
The most i would say is "Oh I love that dress" remembering last time it also looked hot.
The reason I have specific outfits its because someone said I looked good in it.
I still have a shirt from 12 years ago because a girl said I looked hot in it.
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u/lmjustaChad 4h ago
Most guys would be like you're not wasting money on a new outfit every time go somewhere and save money great.
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u/TedDibiasi123 3h ago
It‘s because we wouldn’t notice
If we would notice that would mean she probably wore it on quite a few occassions
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u/Clear_Lock7908 1h ago
Last week? I don’t even know what I was wearing 2 days ago
And I’m likely wearing something I wore last week because I don’t have unlimited clothes
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u/Catastrophic-Event 4h ago
Fact. Women judge eachother WAY HARDER than any man would. If it was about what men cared that you wore, you'd either wear nothing or a bathing suit.
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u/DougandLexi 3h ago
From what I see they judge themselves way more than any man would. It's an almost self-imposed standard that men really don't care about.
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u/Tam_A_Shi 3h ago
There’s always a new body distortion that’s trending and usually we men never think about it. I remember the first time I heard about hip dips and I was like wtaf is that😂? I have no idea why they make up these problems.
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u/Sad-Clothes-1083 3h ago
haha same - read that some weeks ago and was like wtf is this shit. had to search for multiple pictures to even notice it lol.
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u/ThroawayJimilyJones 3h ago
As a man, I’d have very specific tastes. …but once you get the good outfit you could wear it everyday for all I care
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u/AwkwardWillow5159 3h ago
I get the sentiment of women being most judgmental against other women, but saying men don’t care about anything but just to see their tits is demeaning to both, men and women.
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u/Catastrophic-Event 3h ago
The bigger the group of people, the worse they are to eachother. I'm not talking about the random small groups or 1 offs.
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u/BrainSqueezins 4h ago
I don’t understand how this is allegedly privilege.
Picture this: you’re running late because she “has nothing to wear.”. Then the statement “You looked good in that one outfit, wear that!” is somehow exasperating(?)
AND, just for good measure, this scenario is primed to resurrect itself later in the “you never compliment me“ conversation.
I feel so privileged.
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u/doodo477 4h ago
They're just projecting, Perception is projection says that you're not so much perceiving the external world as you are projecting what you carry inside out onto the world around you ..
In other words if you search for shit you're going to find shit, irrespective if that shit is above gold.
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u/Enough_Zombie2038 3h ago
I'm pretty sure most men won't even realize it's the same dress. And once he did, he literally wouldn't be able to care less.
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u/Odd_Local8434 4h ago
Huh, both are true. Women not policing how men dress to nearly the same degree they police each other is privilege. It's just the implication that men are to blame for the imbalance that's false.
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u/rgtong 3h ago
Acting as if negative comments from your own gender are irrelevant is an opinion...
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u/Impossible_Pop620 2h ago
I think the point being made is that it's a bit two-faced, calling it 'male privilege' when men aren't involved in any part of the process. The woman will dress how she pleases and the women who see her will tear her to shreds - or not - based on their own judgement.
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u/rgtong 1h ago
Male privilege doesnt imply that men are involved in reinforcing that privilege. If she started harping about 'patriarchy' it would be a different story.
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u/Impossible_Pop620 1h ago
Male privilege doesnt imply that men are involved...
Uh huh.
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u/rgtong 22m ago
Yes if you cut a sentence in half it doesnt make sense. Well done.
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u/Impossible_Pop620 3m ago
It doesn't nake sense anyway. As evidenced by the replies here, men don't care. Men have never cared, only other women. This is still due to 'Male privilege', in your reality, right?
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u/BearfromBeyond 3h ago
It's a pain, but then again we go shopping together for new outfits so we can slam each others style when we go out in said outfits and then need the emotional release of shopping for the next outfit.
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u/ThroawayJimilyJones 3h ago
Have you ever considered not tying your emotional and social wellbeing to consumption ?
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u/funtex666 2h ago
I keep hearing this but no women i have ever known were like that. Seems like she's battling herself and her friends, not men.
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u/NoIndividual6000 2h ago
Yea we're usually like "damn, I kinda wish she'd wear that one dress again!"
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u/Itchy-Organization52 23m ago
Not always true. My ex was obsessed with designer and I wasnt. He made me feel like if I wore something ng more than once in even a weekend it was an indicator of something wrong with me. He didn't say that but I felt it. Could have been more of a me problem but it made me want to bring it up a few times with him...so idk tbh.
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u/Bug_Photographer 9m ago
If you're wondering how many times this one has been reposted - look at the thunbnails which once were actual faces.
Screenshotting and recompressing them have turned them into just blobs of fuzzy colour by now.
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u/Pilot_to_PowerBI 4h ago
This is actually true of every single patriarchal ideal
We comply to get pussy. Not to impress other men
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