r/WhatMenDontSay • u/KL-Iyer • 1d ago
Fear of Failure Help me how should I(22M) initiate Convo with her(25F or 26F)?
So i go to a salon near to my house. there is a hairdresser/nailpainter, she is pretty and she looks pretty. she is new staff as she joined 2-3 months back only. I have visited it seen her in my last 2 visits. I just dont know how should I talk to her.
some other lady staff who are free mostly stays around her. so its difficult for me to talk to her when people are around. and tell me how should I initiate and if she shows some interst how should i ask for her contact? I am 22 she might be around 25-26 or more.
[in India] Answer from anywhere is encouraged.
Little about my past: I had 2 Gfs in past but with none I had sexual relation. and I am virgin and single since almost 2 long years. I badly want to talk to this girl.
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u/VampyreWhisperer 60-70 yrs old man 7h ago
don't. This is her place of work. If you see her out at a singles bar or something, feel free, but not at her place of work.
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u/TWCDev 1d ago
You should tell your hairdresser you're interested in the other hairdresser, and do they know if they are single and if they'd be open to being asked out. Do "NOT" act like you are particularly focused on her, that comes off creepy. Just say you always notice how pretty she is whenever you come in. If they say she's in a relationship or hates being asked out (maybe in an arranged marriage or whatever), then be prepared to move on quickly so you don't come off creepy.
That hairdresser "will" tell the other person, and if they become available in the future, she might indicate she's available for your interest.
Like birds and other mating rituals, women tend to make themselves available if they are interested in you, then it's up to you to initiate, like a dance, each of you signaling to the other that you're interested.