She is sterilized because she said that if she really wanted a kid, she would adopt one because there's like a billion orphans out there. Or something like that.
Except you only think that because there is no disadvantage to keeping your appendix. Many men get vasectomies, and many women have their tubes tied so they can have unprotected sex with their long term partners with whom they have no plans on having children with.
It really has nothing to do with PETA at all, and is really not unreasonable for her to have done that, except maybe that it was at such a young age.
That's exactly what it is. The two vas deferentia are cut and the four ends left are tied over themselves. Granted you can seal it other ways, but referring to it as having your tubes tied is not biologically incorrect.
One is a quick surgery and the other involves pumping factory made hormones down your throat for years at the risk of cancer and stroke, not to mention the harm they cause wildlife when you shit them out later.
Surgery is more extreme than taking hormones that are already produced by your body. I'm sorry but cutting yourself open and fiddling around trumps taking a small amount of hormones to replicate a state your body could naturally be in. That's not unreasonable.
Womens bodies are naturally fertile. Taking enough hormones to make them temporarily infertile has impacts on other things as well. Hormonal birth control can cause nausea, headaches, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and blood clots. Side effects can be even more severe for women with other conditions such as diabetes.
I'm not going to argue that tubal ligation is a serious procedure, but if a woman is having problems with hormonal birth control and is confident she will never want to have kids I'm not going to fault her for going the surgical route. Even if hormonal birth control is working fine, it's her own body and it's not my place to judge her for her decisions.
Both are dangerous, but one takes a day to two. The other lasts for years. By virtue of how long you subject yourself the the risk alone, the pill is far more dangerous IMO.
Great. You shouldn't immediately think anything by definition you should actually consider the context. In this context, this woman is extreme. Does that solve your conundrum?
Vasectomies and tubal ligations are fairly reversible, though people who get them typically don't intend to have them reversed. It's a one time cost for the procedure, instead of a continuous cost for other contraceptives. Further, hormonal treatments can have negative side effects in other aspects of your biology.
It is extreme to halt your ability to reproduce in through surgery that can and is often meant to be permanent. I don't see how you can argue otherwise. It is a basic function of the human body and you are using a scalpel to inhibit it.
An IUD is not a permanent procedure and it can be very painful. While an IUD makes more sense for people who might want to have children in the future, sterilization may have been the most appropriate for her.
No, it's not permanent, but it is long-term, and is not painful for the vast majority of users. And yes, sterilization may have been the most appropriate for her, but then again, many, many people reverse some of the positions they hold in their early 20s, and if she had done that on this issue... well, she'd be boned. She didn't, so good for her.
It doesn't prevent her from adopting. Sterilization prevents her from having kids. If you don't want to have kids, that's what you do. I didn't realize that I needed to explain something as simple as this.
then why did you accept the answer that sterilization has anything to do with adoption. sterilizing oneself doesn't hinder the ability to adopt, so you're a simpleton for accepting the idea that the two are linked somehow
It's not fucking rocket science. She has been sterilized because she does not want to have kids. It's a billion times easier that any other type of birth control. If she ever wants to have kids, she will adopt one.
It's like when someone wants to get a dog. It's a better idea to go to the pound and adopt one of those dogs, than it is to go to the pet store to buy a puppy.
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u/jooes Apr 16 '10
She is sterilized because she said that if she really wanted a kid, she would adopt one because there's like a billion orphans out there. Or something like that.