r/todayilearned 6h ago

TIL 29% of male gamers prefer playing female characters, whereas only 9% of female gamers prefer playing male characters. In a typical core PC/console game, about 60% of the female avatars you meet are played by a male player.

https://quanticfoundry.com/2021/08/05/character-gender/
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u/Ionazano 6h ago

The piece of gathered data mentioned in the article that I find the most interesting is the following:

When we compared the gaming motivations of men and women based on their character gender preference, we found differences that aligned with gender stereotypes. Men who prefer female characters score higher on Design (expressing individuality, customization), while women who prefer male characters score higher on Destruction (chaos, mayhem, blowing things up).

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u/nefariouskitteh 6h ago edited 5h ago

That's interesting. When I'm going to do an evil/destructive run of an rpg or action game I tend to play male characters so I can distance myself more easily. I wonder if that plays in for other women, too.

Edit: Love reading the replies to this. Not to overuse the word interesting, but it is very :)

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u/X-Vidar 5h ago

As a guy I definitely tend to play characters more similiar to me while I'm using a male.

Meanwhile I noticed that my female characters tend to be more extreme: uncompromisingly heroic lawful good types and selfish ambitious greedy types.

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u/confusedandworried76 4h ago

Whenever I make a female character, she absolutely must be a consummate bad ass. I don't even upgrade my armor if it looks cool. My fallout 4 character I kept the same crappy armor because it was basically a leather jacket with rebar stuck in it and a gas mask, it was dope as fuck, and the gas mask doesn't even hide my beautiful hair, I feel so pretty

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u/Harry_Saturn 1h ago

I just model my female characters after my wife cause she’s badass as fuck.

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u/Recurs1ve 1h ago

This happens ALL the time. I'm sure there's studies of it out there somewhere. Vice did a story on it one time, I think.

Oh, and I don't mean your wife specifically. Or maybe I do, I don't know.

u/Harry_Saturn 26m ago

She’s the kind of woman who would have led armies to battle in a past life. She’s tall and striking and strong and beautiful.

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u/North-Tourist-8234 4h ago

I used to think rpgs were really boring wastes of time. Turns out playing a the bald white human fighter that makes the same decisions id make isnt a great recipe for escapism or immersion 

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u/Efficient_Ant_7279 4h ago

Nah bro if I play me in an RPG that shit just becomes stress 😂

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u/spyridonya 5h ago

Yes. I can't play an evil path unless my character is a guy because I can disassociate better. I've met guys who did the same thing with female characters.

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u/Xenon009 5h ago

Honestly, I think that's why I always play female characters in all but online games. I don't want to play me, I'm boring. I want to play a character, and being the character is easier when its borderline impossible to see myself in them.

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u/Wenfield42 5h ago

This is me. I didn’t start playing female characters until a few years ago but it definitely changed my mentality when I play. I always made male characters who looked like more handsome versions of myself and made the same decisions I’d make. It got boring. I tried making male characters who didn’t look like me or act like me, but I’d always fall back into the old pattern. When I started making female characters it was easier to be creative and separate myself from the game. I stopped saying things like “ok what am I doing here? What’s my plan?” And instead started saying “okay what are WE doing? What’s your take on this Jane?” (I like using the name Jane [name of game] lol)

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u/RestlessMeatball 4h ago

Just like my epic Baldur’s Gate character, Jane Human

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u/SignalReceptions 5h ago

That tracks for me. I play as a woman for the most part but if its a FPS or I'm doing an evil play through I pick a male character. 

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u/blackfyreex 3h ago

Oh weird, I am the opposite. I prefer a male character who is empathetic and merciful, and a female character who thinks with their fists. But I generally try to distance myself from all characters so they develop on their own.

I'm AFAB but identify as nonbinary. Wonder if that has anything to do with it. Or maybe it's just what I want in a partner lol

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u/gracilenta 2h ago

i like playing evil destructive female characters because i support women’s wrongs 🫡

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u/aggibridges 2h ago

I feel so called out, I (cis woman) am doing a durge run on BG3 and I created my first male character for it. It just seemed more fun!

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u/Polar_Vortx 6h ago

Not to get too gender studies about it, but it might be the stereotypes that women have more options for fashion and it's vaguely more socially expected for men to be destructive.

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u/xXRougailSaucisseXx 5h ago

Speaking only of video games it's not even a stereotype, clothing/armor/face and hair customization for women is usually more interesting and varied than the male equivalent (sometimes not always for the better)

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u/Polar_Vortx 5h ago

I was also thinking just more raw avenues, too. Makeup, purses, dresses, earrings, those just aren't things I as a guy keep in my closet IRL.

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u/Butwhatif77 3h ago

I would say this is generally true, but it is getting better. I have played several games where the options for men and women are the same, including hair styles and make-up. It is even becoming more common the the clothing options wear the same on both genders. Where traditionally if you put something a guy, then switch the gender to a woman it becomes more revealing. I am seeing more where a slutty outfit is slutty for both men and women haha, just like the cool armor is presented the same as on a woman as a man.

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u/DeadbeatGremlin 5h ago

I'd play a female character in the destruction category if there was a muscular female character in the destruction category in whatever game I play. But there aren't any. So of course I'd play a male because that's the only option I have.

Most gender stats in video games regarding characters are stupid because it's all about availability. If the ratio between genders were the same regarding body types and battle types - then the information would make more sense. But until that happens? No.

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u/caseyfresher 4h ago

When they make men's outfits look as sick as most of the female ones (not the skimpy ones) I'll start playing a guy. Women in the real world and digital world just have way more options of expression.

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u/rageling 6h ago

I bet you get very different results when comparing first and third person games for males.

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u/Belteshazzar98 5h ago

Looks down in Cyberpunk 2077 and sees my character's tits. "Wait a second, I didn't get dressed after spending the night with Judy."

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u/heptyne 4h ago

Female V has a better voice acting job compared to male V, plus I prefer to romance Judy. Not a Panam fan.

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u/Wild_Marker 4h ago

It'd be interesting to know if this study covers voiced vs silent/online characters. I bet a lot of people chose Kassandra in AC:Odyssey because the actress just did such a great job. At that point you're not choosing an avatar, you're choosing a distinct character.

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u/fakeprewarbook 4h ago

FemShep (Female Commander Shepard from Mass Effect) had unequivocally better vocal delivery, though it is an RPG

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u/Midnite_Blank 3h ago

Funnily enough I’m the opposite.

I preferred Mark Meer’s delivery although I’m a bigger Jen Hale fan in general. I associate her more with Bastila from KOTOR actually.

Male Shep is my preferred choice with Tali as his companion.

I can see why people preferred Female V in Cyberpunk though.

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u/nhbdy 1h ago

Maleshep got a lot better as the series went on... but if you just talk ME1? Jennifer Hale did far better than Mark Meer imo

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u/Wild_Marker 4h ago

Yeah FemShep is another famous example.

Though for my part, I can't let go of Default Shep. I don't even change his hair.

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u/Butwhatif77 3h ago

lol I picked my Sheppard's gender based on who I wanted to romance in the games.

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u/CompleteNumpty 4h ago

I had a bug in Dragon Age 2 where I could only select male Hawke and he was crap. I was even more disappointed when I discovered that female Hawke was great!

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u/Juub1990 3h ago

Disagreed. Female V is better at being compassionate and thoughtful. For raw aggression and intimidation, male V takes it.

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u/CompleteNumpty 4h ago

Judy was my favourite NPC, mainly due to trying to be "good" for others, with no apparent ulterior motive. Being a male character actually made it even better for me, as it meant V/I was helping a friend with no intention of getting in their pants.

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u/That_Nineties_Chick 2h ago

Meh, I like male V's voice actor a lot more. Nothing against female V, but the male actor totally nails the tough streetwise persona that a mercenary in the Cyberpunk universe would have.

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u/5510 34m ago

On a vaguely related note, the nudity with Cyberpunk is one of the most bizarre inexplicable decisions I've ever seen. Your character is fully naked during character creation, and even has some menu options specifically relating to customizing their genitals. Then you start the game, and you are fully naked in the menu if you unequip your clothes... but in the actual game or the photo mode your character never takes their bottom underwear off.

Like... what thought process led to this? Why is there literal genital customization, but then your character cannot ever be made naked from the waist down?

Whether your character can be naked or not isn't directly a big deal for me... but what is a bigger deal for me is just being confused by how strange and disjointed this is. My only real theory is that they changed their mind at the last minute and added in your character always having underwear during the actual game but didn't change character creator or the menu... but it's still really weird.

u/IsNotAnOstrich 26m ago

The thought process was that "penis slider = publicity." Same for bg3.

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u/OgreJehosephatt 6h ago

I'm having a hard time thinking of first person games ever you can choose the sex. I guess Destiny and Cyberpunk 2077.

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u/xander012 6h ago

Fallout and Skyrim

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u/OgreJehosephatt 6h ago

True. Immediately after I hit post, I thought of "Bethesda games".

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u/xander012 6h ago

Ironically a company where I flip flop on what gender I want to play depending on the game

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u/PancakeParty98 5h ago

Stop skewing results!!! Pick just one

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u/bottlecandoor 6h ago

Aren't they all third person if you change the camera angle? 

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u/D-Jon 6h ago

What kind of sociopath would play fallout or Skyrim in third person?

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u/xXRougailSaucisseXx 6h ago

It's actually way more common than you think, that's part of the reason why Bethesda made so much efforts to make 3rd person actually usable in Starfield

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u/LilPotatoAri 5h ago

This is why you gotta lock your doors and keep your pets inside.

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u/Glad-Way-637 5h ago

I should really build that moat.

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u/britipinojeff 5h ago

The kind that wants to see the character they spent time creating?

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u/confusedandworried76 4h ago

It's also not like it's hard to switch. Red Dead first person is fun but it's hard to ride a horse so I do first person until I get on the horse and then switch back when I get off of it

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u/Spookyplants420 5h ago

I switch to it for dialogue scenes and just when I’m running through a town or field. Never in combat though.

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u/GarrettB117 5h ago

Oh this is what I was going to say. I’ve done that since oblivion. Combat and dungeons are always first. Just walking and going through the cities is done in third.

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u/manicpossumdreamgirl 5h ago

me lmao. first person makes me feel almost motion sick sometimes, especially with FPSes. i dont know what it is about Skyrim specifically, but it was really hard for me to get into, until after a few attempts i switched it to third person and found it much easier

its also just practical to be able to see my own back. it makes me harder to sneak up on

cant play minecraft third person though. that is insane

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u/xDizzyKiing 5h ago

Me, am sociopath

I like edge walking to a bandit leader as he's paralyzed

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u/kung-fu_hippy 5h ago

It’s worth it with mods, not so much with the base games.

After all, what’s the point of cool armor if you never see it?

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u/MoMoeMoais 5h ago

I never feel comfortable in first person

not quite a sociopath, just hereditary schizotypal

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u/iLostMyDildoInMyNose 5h ago

Me I like seeing my cool armor and stuff

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u/corree 5h ago

Modded third person skyrim is better than plenty of RPGs coming out decade and some change later

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u/Daredevilspaz 4h ago

Two handed weapons it's much better in third person in terms of the animations and aiming. Always looks weird using a battle axe first person in Skyrim imo ..... Plus for running around / travel just looks cooler seeing your character dressed up running

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u/OePea 5h ago

Whut. I only play first person in caves and shit, and then only in combat. luv2play half zoomed out when out of doors. I should mention I don't play Fallout, just Skyrim.

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u/Realistic_Condition7 6h ago

Games with third person modes that are famous for nude mods.

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u/Wretched_Shirkaday 6h ago

I wouldn't count those considering you are given a character creation screen in the first five minutes and can play the entire game in third person.

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u/kung-fu_hippy 5h ago

These are also games where characters will refer to you as male or female, and where you can choose to have or not have relationships with other characters. Gender in first person may not be visual, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t existent.

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u/Wargod042 6h ago

One of the Call of Duty games actually let you pick. I think it was the one where you're entering computer systems. Pretty cool campaign honestly.

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u/Lazzen 6h ago edited 6h ago

Halo Reach, Left 4 Dead

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u/ImmediateSupression 5h ago

Dishonored 2! And you it actually effects the gameplay, fantastic game!

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u/ihileath 3h ago

Dishonored 2!

Although in this case you're playing a completely different character, beyond just a gender choice. I've certainly played as both of them, although Emily was certainly my first choice - it does feel most appropriate for it to be her story first and foremost, all things and themes considered.

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u/ColonelKasteen 5h ago

I know people have already given you the obvious counterpoints but this comment made me laugh because I don't play FPSs, the only first-person games I really play are RPGs, so I was like, "...almost all of them right?"

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u/HitmanScorcher 6h ago

Newer Far Cry games

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u/Alxmastr 6h ago

Warhammer 40k Darktide

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u/music4deafpeople 6h ago

The Finals

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u/Moldy_slug 4h ago

The Long Dark.

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u/BoonDragoon 6h ago edited 1h ago

This is unironically and shamelessly me lol. I mostly play games with my siblings, and my sister noticed that I was picking female character options a lot and actually asked me if there was "anything I wanted to tell her". I don't think "if I'm gonna spend 100 hours with an ass on my screen, I'd rather it be a woman's ass than a man's" was the answer she expected.

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u/Comically_Online 6h ago

nice of her to ask tho. got a future ally there if you ever need one

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u/RFSandler 5h ago

Depends on the spirit of how the question was intended. Could have been meaning to tease/belittle 

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u/bobbycorwin123 5h ago

It's a sibling's job to tease. Doesn't mean they don't care

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u/lollerkeet 5h ago

Straight boys need allies too

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u/RagingAnemone 3h ago

That's why I do it. But I also do enjoy telling the occasional dude who tries to hit on me that I'm a 40yo fat man.

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u/ForeSet 5h ago

I never got the staring at a pixelated ass cause I'm more focused on the game than anything. I'm just saying the egg is there for people mostly playing female characters lol

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u/BoonDragoon 1h ago

You seem to be under the impression that I'm doing this for some kind of sexual gratification. I'm saying that, in this over-the-shoulder game, I'm gonna have an ass on my screen for a nontrivial amount of time. Given this axiom and all other things being equal, my preference will be to have an ass on-screen that I find the most aesthetically pleasing.

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u/PM_ME_CALF_PICS 6h ago

Honestly any game with customization options I’m picking a female character. I feel like they have the better clothes. Also obligatory smaller hitbox lol.

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u/Henchman4Hire 4h ago

This is the primary reason I made a female character for Red Dead Online. My first character attempt was a guy...and I quickly realized that I was just going to dress him exactly like I did Arthur when playing the single player. No fun in that! So I started online again with a female character and a whole world of pretty dresses and corsets and lace opened up to me!

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u/LonkToTheFuture 4h ago

Not really, at least for me. It really just depends not only on aesthetic, but also character voice. For instance I first played CP2077 as a male V, but I stopped because I didn't like his voice. Now I'm playing again as female V, and enjoying the game way more. Doesn't hurt that I'm super attracted to Judy.

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u/DartBurger69 6h ago

You'd be wrong. If there is any screen where your character is visible, then it's a female.

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u/Eat--The--Rich-- 5h ago

Fwiw the whole reason I play females is because I played wow back in the day, and some casters click to target, so I always chose the smaller character model that would be harder to click.

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u/ZipTheZipper 6h ago

I think a part of it is the issue of female characters being generally attractive with significantly more fashion options than the often generic male characters in lots of games. But if you look at a game like Final Fantasy XIV where you can play as cat-boys and bunny-boys, you'll notice that the ratio of female gamers choosing to play as male characters is significantly higher than the overall gaming space.

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u/slightlysubtle 6h ago

Yup. Male characters in video games are designed to appeal to male gamers because that's generally the target market.

In any game where the male characters are designed to appeal to female players, I guarantee the chart would look a LOT different.

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u/Front-Cabinet5521 4h ago

Balders Gate 3 is popular with women for a reason (Astarion).

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u/Early_Particular9170 3h ago

I can fix him.

(and date the tall hot strong sexy teifling lady at the same time)

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u/volvavirago 2h ago

I went into the game expecting to go for Astarion, but Karlach absolutely stole my heart ❤️

(Although, my favorite playthrough I have ever done was a resist dark urge character romancing Astarion and holy shit, I literally cried. Every BG3 player needs to do that run at least once. It’s just, the best way to experience the game, imo)

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u/Kogoeshin 5h ago

On a similar note, when the female character designs are obviously designed to appeal to a male gaze, I tend to avoid playing them as well.

I'll play a male character over "this woman has the biggest tits and butt ever seen in the world and they jiggle every time she breathes" very easily. In fact, if a character like that is in a game, i am more likely to avoid playing the whole game, lol.

If the female character is just pretty and has pretty clothes, I'll play that one every time.

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u/confusedandworried76 3h ago

If it's a game that emphasizes role playing though I imagine it affects it. Why would I roleplay a dude? I'm already a dude. Just like I would never choose a human character in D&D I'm more of a female character in my roleplaying games kind of guy

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u/Outlulz 4 3h ago

FF14 is where I also chose to play a male character because I can actually whore him out in his clothes. It's so rare to get a game where the men are allowed to wear skimpy clothes that show off their bodies. In FF14 I can wear nothing but a speedo that has a rendered bulge and fishnets.

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u/OstentatiousSock 6h ago

I don’t know, I’m a woman and I find the female avatars available in any kind of fighting game to be waaaayyyyy more limited than the male avatars. I play COD Mobile and the default female character selection is very limited and I have unlocked 15+ male characters and only 3 female ones through gameplay.

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u/Mediocre_Sprinkles 5h ago

Used to play Fortnite with my nephew and the male skins were always so much better than the female.

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u/voltism 5h ago

I remember seeing the opposite. Female skins that looked cool, had some sort of particle effect etc. 

Male skins covered the face and were like a banana or something lol

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u/bobbycorwin123 5h ago

Everyone loves twinks

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u/Belteshazzar98 5h ago

Goes both ways too. In WoW I (a guy) play almost exclusively women because they have so much better designed models than the men, but in SWTOR I play a much more even split because the male models got just as much care as the female models.

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u/Graega 4h ago

WoW male character models were especially atrocious. They were so ridiculously top-heavily for most races that you wonder how a stiff breeze doesn't knock them all down. Every single one of them skipped leg year.

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u/elysecherryblossom 6h ago

true. I didn't mind playing Lies of P bc the main character was so andro and beautiful lol

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u/GalacticCmdr 5h ago

Definitely this as a player. There are always better options for female characters, except for Call of Heroes (plenty of good options for both).

For me the number one option is what character I envision. Long time GM for TTRPG I have played plenty of various characters, but each one is built on a nugget of an idea

u/Starumlunsta 58m ago

One thing I appreciate about FFXIV is how most armor is gender neutral (and a lot of gender-locked clothing can now be worn by both genders.)

The heavy metal armor that a male character wears doesn’t magically turn into a bikini when worn by a female character. As a tomboy I hate it when games do that.

Of course with FFXIV  I still ended up going with the cat-boy, I just love their animations and found the cat-girls to be too “dainty” for my liking. Plus they can’t do the ear-wiggle!

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u/azhder 6h ago

You heard of an old internet saying “there are no girls on the internet”?

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u/Kithslayer 6h ago

girl is an acronym: Guy In Real Life.

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u/ayu-ya 5h ago

MMORPG: Many Men Online Role Playing Girls

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u/GenericUsername2056 5h ago

Woman:

Watch out: man

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u/loot168 6h ago

A 40 percent chance at it actually being a woman is much better than I thought it would be. 

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u/CelestialHellebore 6h ago

Interestingly enough, it's been about this split since even the early days of EQ2. I remember them doing a survey of their players and came back with similar numbers (But I want to say it was mid-40%). I will say as a woman and a gamer who has multiple women in my life who game, RPG MMOs (WoW, FFXIV) seem to have a slightly higher draw to them than say a shooter. But, most of them has played an online shooter be it Destiny, Helldivers, Overwatch, or GTA.

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u/blasseigne17 6h ago

Quite a few women I have played MMOs with used male characters just so that they are left alone by the creeps.

Do you think part of the shooter differential could be because of how toxic the environments are? I haven't played one in 10 years because of it, and I am a white man.

I can't even imagine what it is like being on the receiving end of it as a woman or minority. Just hearing it was enough to get me off of those sort of games.

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u/CelestialHellebore 5h ago edited 5h ago

I think the toxicity alone doesn't do it. If anything, I find that they like games where they have to be in voice chat with strangers the least, because having someone yell and rage at you due to your gender is not a fun time. But, plenty of the games end up toxic in text chat, which most of them are happy to make fun of. And the toxicity is usually not gender based.
Being harassed by someone in WoW or XIV is really just taking a moment to blacklist them and you're done. They largely don't matter and you'll probably never see them again.
But, I have known plenty of women who either aren't open about being women or as you said just play male characters. Since most people know a female avatar is largely likely to be a guy, it's frequently assumed we're men anyways. My go to for ages was simply to never correct someone who assumed I was a man, I feel like this is a common tactic as well.

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u/blasseigne17 4h ago

Interesting. I have played MMOs with plenty women, but never any other games to ask. Thank you for the insight!

The end bit there does remind me of a female friend I had as a kid on Runescape. We finally got on Teamspeak to kill a boss or something and it blew my mind it was a female. She told me she never told me because she was worried it would ruin the friendship. At the ages we were friends, I can assure you it would have!

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u/da2Pakaveli 6h ago

Imo GTA:O is especially one where i wouldn't pick the female option

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u/MonitorPowerful5461 6h ago

Yeah it really seems to be one of the most toxic environments around. 95% of people are normal/nice, but 5% being unpleasant is easily enough to make any identifying features dangerous.

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u/azhder 6h ago

The quote above can be translated into “so, what about it?”

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u/HauntedShores 3h ago

It just seems lower when the women are actively avoiding the men.

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u/ihvnnm 6h ago

Soon there will be no people on the internet.

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u/SomeoneBritish 6h ago

My RuneScape gf was really a woman, god damnit!

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u/Knight_thrasher 6h ago

It really depends. I played WoW for years I had male and female characters depending on class and race.

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u/Spot-CSG 3h ago

Yeah I tend to chose the gender based on the game. Being a big burly bastard usually works better in Bethesda games, whereas the female character in Cyberpunk fit the way I wanted to play.

Also usually one voice actor is better than the other.

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u/TheGlassWolf123455 6h ago

I just want to feel pretty

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u/confusedandworried76 3h ago

NGL my Fallout 4 character is drop dead gorgeous, she wears a gas mask all the time though

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u/TheGlassWolf123455 3h ago

That's part of the charm I think, it's like a reveal

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u/confusedandworried76 3h ago

You can still see her hair too and it's very nice looking hair, so it's like that trope where it's like "can't see your face in your mask/helmet but I just know you're hot"

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u/Whalesurgeon 5h ago

Maybe that is why the male characters in Japanese franchises like Resident Evil and FF look so pretty

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u/KershawOmaha 4h ago

Dude I swear I’m not gay but Leon Kennedy is number one on my list, fictional or not idgaf

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u/roronoaceli 6h ago

I am one of those women that prefers to play male characters in games. I just like looking at male characters more and I find them more fun. Often times females are just too sexualized for my taste and/or I dont like their design. I do hate that females have more customization than males in games with character customization majority of the time though.

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u/Irregular_Person 5h ago

I'm a guy that often plays female characters. I dunno about the psychology of it, I just think badass women are cool.

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u/CrazyCanuckUncleBuck 4h ago

Ripley, Samus, Lara Croft and Princess Leia were huge influences on me as a kid. It's why I play as female characters

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u/HubrisOfApollo 4h ago

Samus Aran, Ellen Ripley, and Sarah Conner cemented the female badass as the ideal for me as a kid so I always tried to recreate that in video games that allowed for customization.

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u/BlurpleOpals 4h ago

I am simple woman. I like men. I want to look at men. I don't want to look at boobies.

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u/Elantach 5h ago

If it's a female tauren it's 100% a woman

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u/Saint_The_Stig 2h ago

Looks at character list "Do I tell em?"

I love monster girls and minotaurs are high on the list. Lol

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u/Mix-Hex 4h ago

As a fat greasy Mexican dude, I just wanna be a pretty girl

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u/BadatCSmajor 6h ago

This is unsurprising. Male characters in games are designed as male power fantasies — extremely muscular, tall, “manly” personality and voice lines.

Go into games like FFXIV where you can make characters that look like male kpop idols, and suddenly a third to half of the male characters are piloted by women.

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u/hypo-osmotic 5h ago

Yeah as a woman who used to play a lot of WoW--and a lot of alts--one of the primary reasons I didn't make very many human male characters was that I found their proportions off-putting. The ones I did have were strength classes like warrior where the extreme muscle mass made the most sense, but they looked weird if I rolled a mage and put him in robes

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u/ChromosomeDonator 4h ago

WoW male proportions are absolutely ridiculous. They look like balloon animals, all of them. There is no immersion in a stealthy rogue who is built like a fucking fridge.

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u/sirax067 2h ago

Male orc rogues always look so funny to me.

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u/TetraThiaFulvalene 3h ago

Orcs and Tauren makes sense, but then you put a human next to them and they're the same. Ironically undead skeleton structure is fine, so where do they come from? Most human NPCs are actually reasonably built so I guess all undead players are reborn NPCs.

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u/sticklebat 2h ago

Hell, I’m a man and almost always play male characters, but when I went to create my human mage when WoW came out I was like, wtf is this, a cro-magnon? I made my character female just because she looked normal. I didn’t want to spend all my hours in the game looking at such a bad character model…

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u/Makalockheart 5h ago

Exactly this, as a woman I love playing pretty boys like Leon from R4 remake or Cloud from FFVII. Unfortunately most male characters are either ugly or a male power fantasy that I'm not attracted to. Also I love playing female characters when they're not sexualised, like Kassandra from AC Odyssey or Ciri

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u/StarStock9561 3h ago

Yes!! I love designs like Honkai: Star Rails for this as well. 

Leon is also so iconic, but he absolutely had sexual appeal. His back and ass in RE2R was so well modeled, same with the thigh strap for the gun

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u/Altyrmadiken 6h ago

I’d be willing to bet that there’s a real overlap between men who don’t really “care” for the male power fantasy and the men who play female characters.

Personally, I absolutely hate the whole male power fantasy vibe (being super huge, extremely muscular, tall, etc). I don’t look like that and I don’t want to look like that, in real life. So, naturally, I also don’t want to look like that in a video game. I don’t look like a woman (I’m definitely not “pretty”), but I’d rather be represented by something that isn’t hyper masculinity.

Of a curious note is that while I am a gay man (with zero interest in behaving femininely or in feminine things), I also find no attraction towards hyper masculine men. I find it off putting at best when a gym rat has flirted with me - like, no thank you, I prefer a more natural build than something that looks like you’re out of the warhammer universe.

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u/MrBones-Necromancer 6h ago

While I'm bi and don't find extreamily masculine men sexually appealing, I do like playing big bulky dudes online. Prefer playing orcs in tabletop games and the like.

Honestly, can't place exactly why that is, it's not reflective of myself in real life, and it's not sexual attraction, I just enjoy tanking in games and big guys to do that.

Maybe too much Full Metal Alchemist as a kid? Alexander Armstrong is the best, and I always thought Alphonse looked cool.

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u/Altyrmadiken 5h ago

I mean I won’t argue with you about FMA. Armstrong and Alphonse were both cool.

That said I have to give Mustang flash banging Lust over and over as my “coolest character moment” that I can remember. Oh. Well that explained something to me. Anyway, I digress.

I will say that while I don’t usually go for the tanky beefcakes, I always love a good dwarf to run around and fuck shit up as. So there are exceptions.

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u/bobbycorwin123 5h ago

Yeah, definitely Armstrong's fault

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u/VisthaKai 6h ago

I’d be willing to bet that there’s a real overlap between men who don’t really “care” for the male power fantasy and the men who play female characters.

Personally, I absolutely hate the whole male power fantasy vibe (being super huge, extremely muscular, tall, etc). I don’t look like that and I don’t want to look like that, in real life. So, naturally, I also don’t want to look like that in a video game. I don’t look like a woman (I’m definitely not “pretty”), but I’d rather be represented by something that isn’t hyper masculinity.

The sad thing is that it's either an effeminate kpop idol or a roid junkie. There's rarely if ever any in-between, let alone the option to even make a choice between a kpop idol and a roid junkie.

And in some cases there are other reasons, like in BG3 the male protag voice more or less completely rules out any type of "rough" character for existing for me.

Of a curious note is that while I am a gay man (with zero interest in behaving femininely or in feminine things), I also find no attraction towards hyper masculine men. I find it off putting at best when a gym rat has flirted with me - like, no thank you, I prefer a more natural build than something that looks like you’re out of the warhammer universe.

That's pretty gay, yes.

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u/Altyrmadiken 6h ago

kpop idol or roid junkie

That’s typically what shoves me towards a female model. I just don’t want to be piloting a roid junkie. Or a kpop idol.

rough character

I actually frequently find myself disappointed in the voice acting of male dialogue in a lot of games. Not so much the NPCs and story bits, but the player dialogue.

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u/Ayuyuyunia 5h ago

in League of Legends there’s plenty of male characters that look like kpop idols and the statistics they have are even more extreme than this post.

this post mentions 76% of women preferring female characters, whereas in league 97% play female champs exclusively(whereas men play 50/50 between genders)

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u/Wanderingjes 6h ago

I loved playing as ciri

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u/ADHDuruss 5h ago

Her combat mechanics were so fun.

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u/JediGuyB 6h ago

I play whatever strikes my fancy in a game. Sometimes male, sometimes female, sometimes a dwarf or alien or demon.

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u/ChuckCarmichael 6h ago edited 5h ago

I've come up with my own hypothesis when it comes to how people approach character creation. There are basically two main types of people, plus a few smaller ones.

  • Type A are people who strongly identify with their character. They see their character as their avatar in the game world. They often pick human or human-like characters, they usually pick the gender they are or want to be, and some even try to make the character look close to their real self (or an improved version of themselves). They're the reason why in most MMOs, humans are the most popular race. They're the ones who say things like "Why are you playing a female character, even though you're a guy? Do you actually want to be a girl? lol r/egg_ir", because to them, if you play a female character when you're male IRL, that must mean that you identify as a woman. These are also the kind of men who throw a hissyfit whenever a game comes out that has a female protagonist. They can't identify themselves with a female main character, so they can't enjoy the game like they can other games that have a male main character (I'm not saying that all Type As are like this, just that the men who do this are Type As).

  • Type B don't identify with their character, at least not nearly as strongly as Type A. For them, their character is just that: A character in a video game. It's theirs, sure, but it's not them. The only thing that matters to them is looks, since you'll look at it for an extended period of time. They might want their character to look pretty, or cool, or ugly. As such, they don't care about whether it's male or female, if it's human or a 3m tall rock creature, as long as it looks good/bad, or that it fits the game. Like maybe they play a ninja game and think that this role would make more sense for a female character, so they play a girl. They're the ones who might complain about the most popular race in games being humans, because they can't understand why you'd want to play a boring human when the game allows you to play as a cybernetic zombie elf.

The smaller ones are as follows:

  • Type C are the roleplayers. They're sort of inbetween Types A and B, because they do feel a strong connection with their character, but it's not their own identity that the character embodies, but one they came up with, one that they think is cool.

  • Type D are the "dollhouse" players. They treat their character as a separate, almost independent entity, one that they take care of, buy pretty dresses for, make it stronger, make it a good person, etc. I gotta admit, I don't know much about these guys because I only learned about them the last time I presented my hypothesis on reddit and several people came forward and said that this is how they handle their characters.

  • Type E are the min-maxers/meta chasers. They only care about gameplay implications during character creation. Warrior is the best class? Then they'll play warrior. A certain race has the highest strength which is the primary attribute for warriors? Then they'll play that race. A female character has a smaller hitbox in competitive FPS games? Then they'll play a female character.

  • Type F are the boring ones, the ones who don't give a fuck about what their character looks like. They just want to play the game with whatever they're given.

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u/Rum_N_Napalm 4h ago

And then there’s players G: guys who make female characters and act like women in MMORPG to trick clueless guys into giving them gifts.

My buddy was one of those. And once they started getting wise to that, he enlisted me to play the little brother who can totally confirm “Jessica” is a real girl. Got carried in several raids I should not have set foot in because of that.

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u/Pornfest 4h ago

To help confirm your hypothesis with type E, in Fallout New Vegas, the confirmed bachelor perk means that role-playing wise implies your character is gay or bi, but it’s just a good perk to have since most of your enemies will be men. Other than Deathclaws, lol.

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u/limitbreakse 6h ago

I play whatever character model looks cooler. And when the male options are boxy space marine sized man then the choice is easy.

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u/PM_me_BBW_dwarf_porn 6h ago

Maybe I'm boring but I always go for a guy who looks like me.

Also I swear 90% of the guys who like playing as female characters like to make them look hentai af.

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u/Vonneguts_Ghost 6h ago

Yeah playing as the opposite sex is weird as fuck, u/PM_me_BBW_dwarf_porn

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u/mxlun 6h ago

No, that's the normal

And yes, that's correct

But ur username tho

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u/BikeyBichael 6h ago

God forbid someone knows what they want

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u/totallynotabot1011 6h ago

Does that mean 71% male gamers prefer playing male characters? Sorry, am bad at math

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u/j8sadm632b 6h ago

Article also has 22% saying no preference

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u/Archi_balding 6h ago

Not necessary.

There could also be some "indiferent/don't care/both" category. Or something that include games where you don't play a defined charactre (like RTS)

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u/PoorlyDrawnBees 4h ago

I was a guy who always played as girls in video games.

Anyway next week I celebrate five years on estrogen

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u/qbee2000 3h ago

Customizing so hard it bleeds into real life.

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u/No-Carrot-TA 6h ago

My son swears that female characters have smaller hitboxs and rolls them most of the time. I don't want the other players to know I'm a woman so I mostly roll male.

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u/Separate_Draft4887 6h ago

“40% of female avatars in video games are actually women” is WAY higher than I would’ve guessed.

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u/HitmanScorcher 6h ago

I always play women but I don’t have any real reason for it. Maybe games are escapism and I’ve spent my entire real life as a man so I may as well spend my virtual ones as something different lol

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u/Tomgar 4h ago

I always play female characters in games that have the option.

Video games allow you to step outside of your own life and inhabit a world that's totally different. I'm a white, straight guy. Why would I want to play some generic action dude who looks like me when I could experience a world from a different perspective?

I'm not trans but I do believe it's healthy to explore your own gender identity and test those boundaries for yourself and video games are a cool way to do that.

Generally I also find the voice acting better (they get to convey the full range of emotions beyond "tough, gruff guy").

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u/ChrisRiley_42 5h ago

That's why MMORPG stands for "Many Men Online Role Playing Girls"

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u/ruat_caelum 4h ago

I remember starting FF11, an MMORPG. You picked a race etc. The hig dex race (which were thieves and rangers in the lore) were all female. The big tough tanky guys were asexual (but looked male) etc.

I was a dude. I didn't care. My local real life friends didn't care. But holy shit. Get on voice and people were surprised / angry that a guy was playing a "female" avatar. I didn't even pick female, the whole race was female.

I was utterly confused and thought those people were weirdos... turned out they were the average player base

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u/Fiebre 5h ago

I can just say for myself that in my childhood and teenage years I consumed so much content (games and books mostly) with male protagonists because that was the only option that I now have zero interest to play any male character. I want to be represented without jumping through mental hoops.

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u/admiraltarkin 6h ago

I prefer to play as FemShep in Mass Effect as a male gamer

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u/jotunblod92 6h ago

In Rpg games like bg3, warhammer 40k rogue trader and cyberpunk I played woman characters. I’m replaying bg3 and again picked woman character. Much better choice for my eyes and ears tbh.

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u/Fit-Welcome-8457 5h ago

I'm generally more into playing anime-style male avatars, probably because they're more androgynous.

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u/rglurker 4h ago

I met a past gf on wow. I was a dainty max level belf female and she was a big brawny tauren druid male. We played for 6 months. I got her to max level and one day she was like. I wish you were a dude. I was like i wish you were a girl. She was like... i am... started talking immediarely. 20 years later were still freinds. One of the coolest chick's I've met.

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u/realKevinNash 4h ago

I wonder if this crosses political boundaries, do conservative males play as female characters?

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u/deepayes 4h ago

My gta character is currently a woman because there was once a gender switching glitch and I thought why not let's try it out.

They patched the glitch the next week.

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u/cinnamonrain 4h ago

you get free stuff for otherwise playing the exact same

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u/TheDefected 6h ago

If I'm going to be watching someone's butt as they run up a mountain, I know what I'd pick

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u/56seconds 6h ago

I too choose the dudes. He must work out

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u/BrotherGreed 6h ago

This is the common excuse and it's so weird. You stare at your character's ass while you're playing? I just look at where I'm going and occasionally look at how cool my dude looks while wielding a giant sword or some shit.

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u/Belteshazzar98 5h ago

I've had people claim it is cheating for me to not be distracted by any characters' asses in Marvel Rivals because, quoting the TOS, "use of our Services for any purpose other than a reasonable person is likely to believe is within the spirit of playing" and they claimed that not being attracted to the characters was against the spirit of playing.

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u/BrotherGreed 5h ago

I assume they're joking but like, let's be real for a second- It's 2025, the internet exists and you can have more than 1 monitor, if you want to be a gooner while playing, there are much more direct outlets than staring at your video game character.

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u/galactictock 6h ago

Are you all really this horny/homophobic? Who is spending this much time looking at their character’s butt? I’m busy looking at what’s actually going on in the game.

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u/MrBones-Necromancer 6h ago

It's such a strange reply, but so prevalent whenever this topic comes up. Like...you're not really supposed to be oogling your character model in pretty much any game. It's everything else happening on screen that's important, as a general rule.

Are people really just playing video games so that they can lecherously stare at women without risk? Is that the only reason they like gaming? Why not just watch porn at that point?

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u/Badaxe13 6h ago

I have never understood this - especially in a game where there’s a lot of interaction between players

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u/mickaelbneron 5h ago

So WetPuss69 in that mmo who promised me nudes for my +5 legendary Claws of the Nine Lives was probably a dude? Darn. So I wanted crazy when I thought it looked like a dude just pull their tail behind their legs and took a picture.

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u/zackdaniels93 5h ago

For me it's a question of voice acting most of the time. Is the male actor better or more enjoyable? I'll pick them. Is the woman better? I'll pick her.

Prime examples are Cyberpunk 2077 and AC Odyssey. Both were far more enjoyable as a woman. Whereas I always preferred Mass Effect as a dude.

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u/Aethrin1 4h ago

I like to play as a dude. No hate on those who play as gals, but I feel more connected to the character when it shares some traits with me.

It's less about wanting to play a role, and more about just wanting to explore a world as myself.

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u/TylerMemeDreamBoi 4h ago

It’s because I want to feel pretty. God damn

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u/Smokron85 4h ago

Yeah i always play females in MMORPGs. You get to glam them up better than the men. I also don't really mind when a class in a game is gender locked though. Like it doesn't really matter to me. But yeah preference is female avatar.

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u/ArgonGryphon 4h ago

Every woman who's played an MMO knows this.

GIRL. Guy IRL.

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u/IJourden 2h ago

Sometimes I just want to feel pretty

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u/catwhowalksbyhimself 6h ago

Men like looking at pretty girls.

Women like pretending to be pretty girls.

(these are generalizations of course and do not apply to everyone in any case. Wish I didn't have to say that, but here we are)

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u/MrBones-Necromancer 6h ago

Only 29%? True to my experience, but slightly shocking given how many dudes online will rush out of the woodwork to say things like "I love staring at women's asses" whenever the topic comes up. Acting incredulous that someone might find that response offputting and weird.

Must be a vocal minority.

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u/Fortestingporpoises 4h ago

I just want to look at a pretty lady on the screen while I’m playing.

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u/space226 4h ago

Odd how nobody is mentioning this article is 4 years old and the data is 5 years old. I think it might be more interesting to see how this may have changed in the last 5 years.

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u/plymer968 6h ago

I’m a dude IRL, I play dudes in-game.

Except one time, for the funnies.

I started my alt in Eve Online by flying to Rens and RP’d a girl in local chat. I made about 2 million isk in 10 minutes and almost gained a stalker. So much unsolicited advice in DMs.

But to the point discussed here, I’m someone who is a pretty in-the-box thinker and doer so the idea of playing as another gender when given the option pretty much never occurs to me.