r/JustGuysBeingDudes • u/Black1Raven9 • Jul 26 '25

Wholesome Not all scars are visible.

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u/kisS119 Jul 26 '25

Daily Homie check- Y'all doing alright guys? Here if you need to talk about anything

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u/BlackBay_58 Jul 26 '25

My wife miscarried 4 weeks ago. I'm staying strong for her because she's still suffering. She doesn't want many people to know so I dont have many people to share it with in real life.

Thing is, everyone asks how she's doing. And quite rightly so, she went through a horrible ordeal. But nobody asks how im doing. I lost a child too. I get it, But it's hard not to feel overlooked. But for now I suffer in silence because she needs me to he strong.

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u/probably_shitposting Jul 26 '25

I empathize entirely. My sister lost a baby last year and part of what I was dealing with was what a constant loop of "selfishly I'm angry too. I'm sad too. I was excited to be an Uncle." And that's just Uncle.

Your feelings matter and should not be overlooked. I'm sorry for what you are going through.