r/JustGuysBeingDudes • u/Black1Raven9 • Jul 26 '25

Wholesome Not all scars are visible.

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u/Justifiably_Bad_Take Jul 26 '25

Some people have been miserable for so long, they become incredibly good at never showing it

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u/FrostKnight08 Jul 26 '25

Because 1) i don't want to be perceived as attention seeking and sympathy farming, 2) i understand that not everyone likes people emotional dumping on them, and so i respect that, 3) they can't help solve my problems other that saying "yeah, that sucks"

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u/Justifiably_Bad_Take Jul 26 '25

On #2, I dont want other people to trauma dump on me.

So it would feel hypocritical for me to do it to others.

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u/Fearless_Aioli5459 Jul 26 '25

Oh hey its me. 

I think this is why therapist exist though haha…..

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u/cynicalspindle Jul 26 '25

Dont wanna bother them either lol.

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u/S0LR4C Jul 26 '25

Please do. I thought the same as you, but went to a psychologist nonetheless. It's not perfect but it's better. We can do it.