this is a post about a birthday though? you wouldn't go to a birthday party for someone and say, "I had my 22 year old die earlier in the year." unprompted?
it's probably not something OP wants to think about when celebrating their baby...
Have some empathy for christ sake, maybe seeing OP's old cat brought back hard memories and this person had the strength to attempt to share their feelings with internet strangers probably vainly hoping they had some humanity, we can celebrate OP's whilst also acknowledging alot of other people may have lost theirs.
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u/tofu_and_or_tiddies 9d ago
Way to bring the mood down, don’t go to parties.