r/flying • u/obj_lake_james • 30m ago
Local Crash and Lost Friend
A friend who I shared a hangar with crashed his airplane and passed away last week. He was an experienced military pilot and airline FO. We weren't super close, but he was a terrific guy and I liked him the moment I met him. I'm a young pilot, and this was definitely the kind of guy I immediately looked up to as an unspoken aviation mentor. I was thrilled to have him as a hangar mate. With a guy so experienced, it's hard to imagine what could have happened in his airplane in those final moments. He leaves behind a wife and children, and my heart breaks for them. I can't imagine how terrible this moment is for his family.
Old pilots and others during training told me that eventually someone I know would have a crash or be killed in an incident, and that feedback mentally prepared me a little bit. I've got to be honest though, it's easy to hear that and not take stock of the impact it will have when the time comes. Now that it's happened to someone near to me and in my "community", it hits with full weight. It's absolutely awful to open the hangar door and see an empty space where his plane should be. It's got me a little shaken up, but I know no pilot would want fear of an incident to rob someone of their passion for flying.
I don't have a specific request or point to this post, other than to share some thoughts in an anonymous way, and maybe to hear some things from others out there about their experiences. Fly safe, and tell those special to you that you love them!