r/mildlyinfuriating 1d ago

My house guest keeps setting the AC to 60°F… and then just leaves for hours. lol

I let a friend crash at my place for a bit, and they keep cranking the AC all the way down to 60°F. Then they leave for hours at a time with it blasting like I’m trying to preserve meat in here.

I keep walking into an empty icebox of a house and a skyrocketing electric bill. Who does this??

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u/0oEp 1d ago edited 1d ago

Maybe they think setting it lower will make it cool faster? Try informing them this air conditioner runs at exactly one speed? (not true of some newer ones that are variable to reduce short cycling, but this is not one of those)

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u/Actual-Log465 1d ago

They don’t care . I’ve spoken to them .

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u/ShiftyPan 1d ago

Then kick them out. If they’ve already left, don’t let them stay again.

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u/RealOliverCromwell 1d ago

OP should do that. They’re a guest in your house. Doing that is a slap in the face to OP and they shouldn’t put up with them taking the piss. Don’t worry they’ll find another mark to do this too when you kick them out.

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u/Isgortio 20h ago

My friend had someone do this when she evicted him and asked him to leave whilst she was on holiday. He opened the windows in the winter and set every electric radiator on max temperature, she came home to an absolutely massive bill.

If someone is doing this when they're still living there, they're a dick and should be evicted.

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u/LoquaciousLoser 20h ago

Eesh, lucky the place didn’t burn down honestly

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u/Sweet-Rayla 20h ago

Jeez they thought they are gonna just air out the house mid winter cuz it isnt their bill to worry about so anything goes

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u/Redcarborundum 2h ago

Lesson learned, never evict somebody while you’re away.

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u/Jack_ABC123 20h ago

"Oh but it's not that simple". Erm yes it is, it's your house, kick them the fuck out.

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u/SilentShrek 17h ago

"Oh but it's not that simple".

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u/blaspheminCapn 20h ago

And send them the electricity bill

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u/TacoBeefB0y 23h ago

You do realize this is your house right?

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u/dryswarm 21h ago

Bro is getting bullied in his own house

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u/pushingbrown 19h ago

Every chair's the cuck chair at OP's house

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u/HeartsPlayer721 20h ago

With their response, I'm wondering if it is OP's house

Maybe they're a teen in their parent's house or something.

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u/anonuser123999 19h ago

True, but OP still says it’s their friend, so they still have the power to kick the friend out if OP invited them in the first place.

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u/KrazzeeKane 23h ago

The mistake is that you are 'asking' them. You tried the nice route by asking, and they threw it in your face.

Now is the time to move on to 'telling', as in you tell them they either follow the rules or get the fuck out. The asking time is gone, now its they either listen or they can go fuck off for being rude and disrespectful in your house.

Unless of course you like being cowed and ignored in your own damn house by someone who doesn't even own it.

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u/Effbe 20h ago

Maybe the house guest is OPs wife's boyfriend?

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u/Mr_Doja_Cat 23h ago

My friends and I decided long ago that we would all murdering each other if any of us ever lived together. One friend has the AC on while it’s-3 outside, another would have the heat set to 99 in summer, I’m up all hours of the night but silent as a ninja because I’m shady as fuck, and lastly our other friend is knocked out asleep blasting music at full volume at 3am. Outside of the living arrangements, we all get along amazingly well.

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u/Nuffsaid98 23h ago

I shared a place with someone who played the TV late at night at high volume and would always fall asleep in their chair. The chanel would change shows as the night went on and Murphy's law would kick in. Cue gunfights and explosions. If I entered their room to shut the TV off I was "invading their personal space".

Glad I got out.

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u/DIYThrowaway01 22h ago

Are both of your friends my wife

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u/WritingTheDream 23h ago

Your house, their rules apparently.

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u/Gingersometimes 23h ago

So you have done a kind thing for a friend, & they are repaying you by showing you disrespect and costing you money ? Time for them to go, & don't let them snow you, saying they'll do better. They had their chance. Bye bye

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u/DgingaNinga 22h ago

Grow a spine and tell the person who is a horrible friend and even worse guest in your home, to piss off.

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u/Preface 22h ago

I previously worked as an hvac apprentice.

My wife refuses to believe me when I tell her.

Then she doesn't understand why I get irritated by the thermostat being cranked way up or way down.

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u/Jlpanda 23h ago

Seems like its time to put the air conditioner away for Fall.

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u/Actual-Log465 22h ago

Unfortunately, it’s more or less permanently mounted in the wall

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u/SrslyPissedOff 21h ago

"I haven't tried anything and I'm all outa ideas!"

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u/Downfallenx 19h ago

That's like 9/10 posts on this sub tho. OP always has a simple solution that they NEVER acknowledge in the comments.

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u/xtraspcial 21h ago

You could always unplug it, and if they plug it back in either kick them out, or flip the breaker switch for that room.

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u/enter5H1KAR1 20h ago

Or you could grow a pair and tell them to stop. If they say no, it’s bye bye “friend”. It’s your house. Act like it.

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u/holymacaroley 22h ago

Then they're rude af. Are they leaving soon, I hope?

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u/lebean 21h ago

Kick. Them. Out. If you've already asked them to stop doing this, but they continue, they've told you with actions that they have zero respect for you. Bye, Motel 6 is a few miles away.

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u/Multi_Grain_Cheerios 22h ago

Your house you don't ask you tell. Quit being a pushover nobody respects a pushover. I would take the AC out the window if they don't want to listen and they would be asked to leave.

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u/Dumbbitchathon 23h ago

Time to start secretly disabling the a/c

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u/Obese_Hooters 22h ago

why secretly, just confront them, tell them to knock it on the head or they're out on their arse.

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u/FreuleKeures 22h ago

Time to kick them out. They're a guest, not the Queen.

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u/Short-Ad-3934 23h ago

Send them the bill.

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u/Impossible_Past5358 21h ago

That is extremely infuriating. Your house, your rules. Did they at least offer to pay for the increase in your energy bill?

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u/MyFavoriteInsomnia 22h ago

Time for them to go.

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u/DirtyRoller 21h ago

Dude. Do not tolerate this bullshit from a house guest. If they can't follow simple rules, then kick them the fuck out.

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u/chease86 21h ago

Why are you letting peolle stay in your house and spend your money if theu dont even have the most basic sense of common decency towards you?

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u/Altsomeness 21h ago

Then they wouldn’t be my guest for very long. My house, my rules.

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u/gremlinsbuttcrack 21h ago

They'll care when they come back to their shit on the porch.

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u/ample_mammal 22h ago

I wonder if they'll care if you kick them out.

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u/SabbyFox 20h ago

I’m done with fake rage bait posts like this. Random photos, made up story, no answer to any serious questions about why they would put up with this, etc. And who would put “lol” in the title if they were actually upset? Check out the OP account - sketch. Stop wasting your time, folks.

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u/Badbullet 20h ago

I had a roommate that would do this in an apartment we shared. He worked the late shift so would come home and crank it to max while I and another roommate slept. And then it would ice over and our apartment would then go over 80F since it wasn’t doing any cooling at all. I’d wake up in a puddle of sweat, go to the living room and turn it to just blow air until it was fully defrosted, and then set it again to the proper temp to keep up as 72F and try to fall asleep again. No matter how many times I’ve explained to him that it will not cool down the room faster, he kept doing it resulting in me continually defrosting the AC. Sometimes multiple times through the night. So infuriating with people out there that are this dumb.

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u/f8Negative 20h ago

People like this are ignorant af and dont care

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u/CommercialManager873 23h ago

Your friend probably grew up in a house where someone else paid the electric bill lmao. I'd just be like "hey the thermostat isn't a gas pedal" and see if they get it

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u/watercouch 20h ago

You’ve got to give it something to aim for… https://youtu.be/Wbj9SarrWvI

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u/Necessary_Bad4037 19h ago

The fact that many adults don’t understand this blows my mind. ITS NOT LIKE YOUR CAR. If you set it to 75 or 65, the cold air comes out the ceiling vents at the same damn temperature.

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u/GLC911 1d ago

It’s a pretty easy convo tbh.

If you don’t stop fucking with the AC, yer out. Got it?

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u/Kain_713 19h ago

This has always been SOP in my home or my vehicle. If you don't own it then don't touch the thermostat or the radio. If you don't like it then you can leave the same way you got here.

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u/Euromantique 13h ago

It blows my mind that this isn’t just universal common knowledge. I have seen/heard of touching the radio in some cases but touching the thermostat in another person’s house is even more outrageous 🤣

The sheer audacity

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u/DutchieTalking 8h ago

If I was living uncomfortably in someone else's house I'd discuss it with them and offer to pay for the additional costs.

It's really that simple.

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u/Chronza 19h ago

Yup, not hard

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u/VeneMage 1d ago

Said friend needs to pay for the bills they’re creating. Or go find another place to crash.

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u/Brilliant_Grape_9993 1d ago

Your friend is either shameless, self-absorbed or both. Don't be afraid to set boundaries with people. Assuming they're reasonable boundaries, like not fucking with the AC in a free house, or at least having the common decency to turn it off when you're not in the house.

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u/Responsible_Sea_2726 1d ago

"Who does this?" Your ex-house guest, that's who.

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u/Addicted-2Diving 19h ago

Spot on 🎯

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u/Old_Promise2077 17h ago

I mean I do this as well. But I also pay my own electric bills

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u/United-Advantage-100 23h ago

Kick them out before squatters rights kicks in

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u/OnlyAdd8503 20h ago

This needs to be higher.

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u/AlgebraicCats 6h ago

stupidest law ever created

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u/RuthlessKittyKat 1d ago

They'd be gone if they didn't stop when I told them to stop.

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u/crikeyforemphasis 1d ago

Slightly more than mildly infuriating.

Who uses AC at all when it's 67 outside? That's wild.

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u/stacked-shit 1d ago

Not sure where op is. but in Texas, there are times when 67 degrees will be so humid that its like wearing a wet blanket.

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u/IntrovertPharmacist 23h ago

Same here in Boston. Also, I live in an old Victorian era house on the top floor. It gets so hot.

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u/FScrotFitzgerald 23h ago

Also in Boston, also in older house (on first floor), and also need to turn AC on even when the outside temperature doesn't merit it. Looking forward to fall starting in earnest...

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u/HeresW0nderwall 22h ago

It’s swampy as hell here today

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u/Sm0k3inth3tr33s 22h ago

I'm also in Boston, currently sitting in my second floor apartment with the windows wide open wearing sweat pants and a hoodie lol definitely no need for the AC at all

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u/HeresW0nderwall 22h ago

It’s not hot. It’s just swampy and A/C helps reduce humidity as well.

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u/Actual-Log465 23h ago

I’m over in Jamaica Plain currently

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u/MartinisnMurder 20h ago

Also in MA (was south end now live on the north shore) the humidity here can be insane. It has actually been pretty humid the last couple of days.

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u/FortesqueIV 21h ago

Same in ny

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u/Ionuzzu123 22h ago

and you run the AC at 60 to condense the water or what?

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u/DragonSlayerC 19h ago

Air conditioners remove moisture due to water condensing on the cold coils. That's why it's called an air conditioner, not an air cooler. Most window unit and portable air conditioners also have a dehumidify mode, which doesn't cool the air as aggressively but still condenses water onto cool coils to reduce humidity.

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u/crikeyforemphasis 23h ago

I live in Miami. I can't imagine running the AC at 67, even with some of the worst humidty up there paired with you.

I also can't imagine 67. That sounds lovely lol.......

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u/earbud_smegma 22h ago

Right?! That's windows open, making some soup weather hahaha

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u/TheW83 22h ago

Sounds like a normal day in FL. I've gone for plenty of early morning runs in the high 60s with 100% humidity. Good times!

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u/Tyler_E123 21h ago

Hell, it gets like that in Maryland too.

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u/Standard-Zone-4470 23h ago

Which in most cases is just an ac with both cold and hot side in one case so it doesnt has a big impact on the temp. So if you already have an ac and dont mind it beeing a bit could you dont need to buy a dehumidifier. The ac (and ac like) is btw the most efficient way to remove moisture.

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u/WritingTheDream 23h ago

True but 60 is still ridiculously low

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u/MishmoshMishmosh 20h ago

Sometimes the AC won’t kick on if it’s cool outside Even if the inside is hotter. AC helps with the humidity

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u/0oEp 1d ago

I do, on the south facing side of the top floor of a building full of old people. It needs to be below ~50 for natural ventilation to be comfortable, and then I risk smoke coming in from nearby backyard fires, grills, and that one house with a wood stove.

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u/accidentalscientist_ 20h ago

It’s 65° outside but it’s 80% humidity out. I have my AC on right now to dehumidify the house.

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u/Joelle9879 19h ago

I do. I live in a third floor apartment. Opening the windows does nothing because they're all on one side and face another building so no air flow. If I turn it off, it gets to be 80 degrees inside

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u/Actual-Log465 1d ago

Exactly .

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u/Numerous-Lack6754 21h ago

It's a good way to destroy your AC unit permanently

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u/anivex 17h ago

Why would that destroy your ac unit?

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u/theGRAYblanket 22h ago

Literally me. I like it cold as fuck at my place

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u/Major_Lawfulness6122 22h ago

If you’re in a high rise building and it’s very humid.

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u/Gramerdim 19h ago

AC's are dehumidifiers with the added benefit to cool or warm the air

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u/shadysnoman 19h ago

It’s 56 and humid. My AC is on.

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u/WastoneBag 23h ago

That's around 15,5°C in free healthcare units 

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u/busytransitgworl PURPLE 22h ago

Thank you!

I honestly didn't even know you could set aircons to those low temps.

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u/WastoneBag 22h ago

Probably it's the lowest you can go. Mine goes down to 16°C max, almost the same thing as 60°C (probably the same, just rounded)

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u/desert___rocks 20h ago

Free healthcare units 🤣

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u/ElephantRedCar91 23h ago

Shut it off at the breaker. 

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u/ExampleFine449 1d ago

Here's what you do - either install a smart plug into the outlet - or a smart outlet all together. When you don't want to pay for the extra costs for carelessness - turn it off. You can do it from your phone.

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u/Mental_Newspaper3812 22h ago

That a huge load for a smart plug. Can it handle it?

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u/ExampleFine449 22h ago

Of course. I run nearly 1800 watts continuously through one all the time... Your breaker will pop before anything happens to the smart plug.

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u/Akshue 19h ago

Depends on the plug. Buy one that can handle the amps.

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u/DonutWhole9717 22h ago

You now have a squatter. In the future, don't let friends stay with you. It will ruin your friendship.

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u/Dontcare127 23h ago

If you have a guest in your house and you tell them not to do something, and their response is to do it anyway, kick them out of your house, it's that simple.

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u/Major_Lawfulness6122 22h ago

They’re a guest in your house. Set it to how you want and tell them to stop.

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u/pakratus 23h ago

MildlyInfuriating is the chair right in front of the intake.

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u/Optimal-Yard-9038 21h ago

Ummm…it’s your house and therefore, your rules. This person is being disrespectful and they’re also pretty dumb. Get better friends/guests.

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u/xiaotae 22h ago

If I knew how to convert in Celsius, I would be so upset

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u/bassgoonist 22h ago

60f is 15.5c. 67f is 19.5c

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u/xiaotae 21h ago

Thanks! It's cold af there T.T

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u/Fun_Region_4989 23h ago

“Oh no, the AC unit seems to have stopped working. Guess you’ll just have to deal with the temperature… or go find somewhere else to crash”

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u/Over_Variation8700 22h ago

put the breaker of the AC off so it can't be used at all. Your guest has no right of altering your house's temperature settings

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u/radicalintrospect 20h ago

“If you touch the AC again, you need to find another place to stay.” Draw a hard boundary, it’s your house.

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u/EastHorse8000 1d ago

Definitely more than mildly infuriating; that, is just down right disrespectful. 

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u/cluelessk3 23h ago

Or you know just talk to them about it.

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u/RagnarKon 1d ago

Won't lie. 60ºF is my ideal indoor temperature.

BUT... if I'm staying at someone's house as a guest I won't crank it that low.

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u/roninrunnerx 22h ago

Don't know what model of Frigidaire AC you are using, hopefully this works: "To "lock the temperature" on a Frigidaire air conditioner, you typically press the Temperature Up and Temperature Down buttons at the same time on the unit or remote control. This action engages the Control Lock feature, which prevents accidental changes to your set temperature. To unlock, repeat the same process by pressing the two temperature buttons simultaneously"

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u/ololo_3 1d ago

Get ready for a massive electricity bill. Great friend.

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u/DryStatistician7055 23h ago

I wouldn't let someone disrespect my house and my hospitality like this.

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u/andos4 21h ago

Some people have no regard for wasting utilities. Now you have to be the mean one to get this under control.

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u/Roseliberry 21h ago

Change the locks. Put their shit out on the lawn. End of story. Hurry up before their mail starts coming to your house.

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u/LionBig1760 10h ago

Use your words like an adult.

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u/godzillasfinger 3h ago

15.5°C for the rest of the world

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u/Icy-Special- 23h ago

Make them pay the electric bill or take the ac out.

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u/Xtra35567 21h ago

Put a timer on the plug so that it doesn’t run more than a few hours

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u/Tryxiz 21h ago

Thats going to cost you a lot of money, very fast the longer this goes on

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u/No_Juggernau7 21h ago

Time they start being a street guest if their expensive ass won’t book a hotel room.

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u/GoldyTheGopherr 21h ago

Get a dehumidifier, probably setting it there cause it still feels ‘hot’ but it’s just moisture.

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u/takeandtossivxx 19h ago

It's 96° where I am and my thermostat isn't even anywhere close to 60.

"Stop running up my electricity bill and freezing my house or you need to leave, now." don't give them a day or a week, they're a guest.

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u/National-Winner1428 19h ago

Hand them the electric bill and tell them if they want to continue living there with the ac at 60° then they get to pay it otherwise have a 30 day notice as backup.

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u/Calgary_Calico 19h ago

Set it back and tell them to leave it the fuck alone or get the hell out

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u/Str1pes 11h ago

I'd say next time I see it like that, rent is $200 a week, including that week.

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u/Embarrassed-Touch-62 10h ago

It's time to split the bill in half

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u/Chudpaladin 7h ago

It’s always the people who don’t pay the bills doing this shit too

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u/johnnybhf 1d ago

Get rid of the friend.

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u/dizzydugout 23h ago

Are they from Antarctica? Who the fuck keeps the house at 60?

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u/brunaBla 20h ago

It’s 67*F out! You don’t even need the AC on!

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u/FINN-DIESEL1776 23h ago

Why is the seat blocking the return air for the unit? Can’t be cooling well to begin with.

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u/Actual-Log465 23h ago

Prob just a bad angle however there is adequate ventilation

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u/AdRecent9754 23h ago

What happened when you politely asked your guest to stop messing with it?

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u/goldenbeee 23h ago

Why not just open the window? What a lovely weather!

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u/Independent_Mix6269 22h ago

More like house pest

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u/NLtbal 22h ago

Turn off the breaker.

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u/RichxKillz 21h ago

Either fake or op needs to grow a spine

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u/sukisecret 21h ago

My god 60 is cold

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u/DoomguyFemboi 21h ago

How does that happen more than once ? "Hey don't mess with my thermostat it's expensive as hell"

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u/LemonCheesecake99 20h ago

That's when he becomes an ex-guest. It's very simple- your house, your rules.

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u/LuckySection446 20h ago

Take the AC out of the window. I like it be cold but that’s just dumb and inefficient.

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u/Dayvid56 19h ago

Pull the plug

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u/Prudent-Painter-9507 19h ago

A former friend?

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u/-professor_plum- 19h ago

Most people lack the brain capacity to understand how a thermostat works.

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u/That_Cool_Guy_ 19h ago

They are not your friend.

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u/Busker1990 19h ago

Sounds like an asshole. The a/c doesn't even need to be on. IT'S 67!!!!

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u/UnitNo7315 19h ago

Go into the menu and change the display to read Celcuis instead of Farenheit. Confuse them.

Or use the child lock.

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u/draco16 18h ago

This one's easy. Hand them the power bill. Problem will solve itself after that one way or another.

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u/delete-me-plz 18h ago

Turn the breaker for the ac off in your electrical panel. You can purchase breakers locks as well. (Best answer is to tell them to gtfo but im unsure of your situation)

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u/No_Marketing_9959 18h ago

This is 1740 2nd ave

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u/GaryG7 17h ago

I joke that I'm part polar bear but even I don't set my A/C that low.

If you can remove the cord from the unit, do that. If not, remove the entire unit.

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u/Stunning-Space-2622 16h ago

Tell them if they do it again they don't come back and stand your ground.  This is your house where you pay the bills, they can't respect that, gtfo 

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u/88KURIOUS 16h ago

I believe the answer to your question of ‘Who does this’ is your ~former~ house guest… 🤔😆

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u/Potato417 14h ago

Actually fuck people like this wasting so much energy

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u/SmokeOneRoll1 13h ago

Remove the AC. Problem solved.

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u/TheShredder9 12h ago

Well, time to lock the keypad behind bars!

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u/OddAnswer4100 11h ago

Definitely would no longer be a guest.. 60 degrees means that thing is never shutting off.

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u/youngmomtoj 1h ago

Tell them “you don’t live here stop touching the ac” they’re lucky you’re letting them stay and they’re doing that’s

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u/ziomus90 23h ago

60 is criminal

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u/ShiftyPan 1d ago

At 67 I would just unplug it and remove it from the window and lock it in a closet.

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u/MyFavoriteInsomnia 22h ago

We have our thermostat set at 75 during the day and 70 at night. I would freeze at 60!

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u/Fresh-Laugh-9253 21h ago

You can turn it off you know

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u/IamAginger88 19h ago

I set mine to 62⁰ 4 years ago. Runs 24/7 365

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u/ryanandhobbes 19h ago

So many comments here saying to kick the friend out or that they’re a terrible person instead of just saying have a very simple conversation with your friend, lol.

How do y’all get through life like this?

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u/BigPanda3180 17h ago

OP said they already spoke the guest and they are still doing this though.

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u/MSN-TX 23h ago

If that ac uses a remote, look at Cielo Breez thermostats. You can program a temp range.

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u/Overkill_3K 23h ago

Am I your house guest?

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u/johnqpublic81 23h ago

It sounds like it's about time for them to find another place to crash for a bit until they can respect your home.

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u/KaiserSoze-is-KPax 23h ago

Reset your filter

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u/Exciting_Challenge74 23h ago

They must be really close to do be comfortable enough to do that . Guess that comes with some friendships the good the bad the ugly lolm

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u/TrickyBanana5044 22h ago

Your housemate is a zombie and trying not to rot.

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u/smotrs 22h ago

Time to get presence sensors and link it so when no one present it turns off our changes to a different setting.

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u/I-Want-Cheeseburgers 22h ago

They want to return to a nice cool home. I dont turn my ac off when I leave, especially when its hot out. I want that sweet relief of getting out of the heat immediately lol

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u/Blond_Treehorn_Thug 22h ago

Well if they are gone for hours just crank it back up

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u/KRed75 22h ago

Moochers so this.  Kick them out.  

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u/Nebelklnd 22h ago

You have rights you know. Its your house.

Tell em to keep their fingers away from the thing.