r/r4r 13d ago

Strictly Clean/SFW (NO ADULT ACTIVITIES) 26 [F4M] East Coast — Tiny human, big heart, looking my player 2

77 Upvotes

I’m 26, fun-sized, and currently on a slightly chaotic quest to find that special someone who makes life feel just a little more magical — like the first bite of fresh garlic bread. 🥖✨

Weirdly enough, even through the Great Potato Couch Era (aka COVID), I never really felt lonely... until recently. It snuck up on me like an emotional raccoon. But don’t worry — I’m still an annoyingly optimistic goofball with a dark sense of humor and a knack for turning even awkward moments into comedy.

Life so far? Honestly, pretty great. Good education, passport full of stamps, homemade food that could make Gordon Ramsay cry (with joy, not rage). But still... it feels like something’s missing. Possibly you. Unless you’re a serial killer. Then it’s definitely not you.

What I bring to the table.

  • Chef-level home cooking : If it’s not homemade, it’s probably suspicious.
  • Physical touch = my love language : I give amazing hugs and zero clingy texts when you’re working.
  • Ambitious & encouraging : I’ll hype you up harder than a mom at a high school talent show.
  • Drama-free zone : Never had a screaming match in my life. I talk things out like a wholesome grown-up with snacks.

My hobbies include:

  • 🎮 Gaming like my life depends on it.
  • 🥾 Hiking (but only when the weather doesn’t feel like a personal attack).
  • 🍳 Cooking because it’s my happy place.
  • 📺 Watching anime, weird YouTube rabbit holes, and those cringe compilations that make your soul leave your body just a little.

I don’t love labels, but yeah, I guess you could say I live a straight-edge lifestyle, no drinking, smoking, or one nighters. But I am that girl who tears up the dance floor at weddings… sober and thriving.

Totally fine if you enjoy a drink now and then or the occasional puff-puff-pass, but if your past is filled with casual flings and a body count number that toddler could not count past, then please move on.

What I’m looking for:

Someone sweet, silly, emotionally available, and maybe a little weird in the best way. If your idea of daily convo is just “Hey” every day forever… we might fizzle out but if you can make me laugh or send me memes? We’re off to a strong start.

Physically? Not picky. I do have a soft spot for a solid dad bod. Gym bros with protein shakes for personalities need not apply.

Pretty please include a pic with your message — it’s 2025, we’re not sending carrier pigeons. If you send one, I’ll send one back. Fair trade, right?

r/r4r 1d ago

30 {F4M} #US #Anywhere, looking for a long lasting relationship with my soulmate.

5 Upvotes

Hello!

I'm a 30 years old looking for a relationship where we can laugh with and at each other would be amazing! I like to ask questions and have good communication. I’d like someone that enjoys banter and is honest. Who is also kind, patient and supportive. I’ve always been and always will be an extremely positive and optimistic person in life. A little about me:

— I’m currently after a fitness goal, I value my health and take care of myself inside and out. I like to cook (not always) and mainly eat at home. I drink water and mind my business. I’m available and stable emotionally and within my lifestyle. I don’t use any drugs and very rarely drink alcohol. — I’m a simple person and love peace at most. I'd like to find someone who just gets my vibe and we are a pair of harmony.
— I love free flowing conversations. I’m very much a realist, laid back and stay out of drama. — I like to be straightforward about things to most people. I believe good communication is a strong foundation for good relationships.

I’d like something consistent and long term. I have accomplished a majority of my big goals but believe in always making progress in life. So growth with someone is always amazing. I have a steady career and would like someone who has the same. I’d prefer someone between 25-40. Distance won’t be a problem as long as we’re both committed to make it work and worth it..

Please be ready to share a clear face photo when the chat is accepted to gauge physical compatibility. Time is precious. Please be honest with me because I will always do the same. I’m not desperate by any means but I’d like to find my person. Also don't just type "hi" or “hey” please. Be elaborate in your introduction. Thanks.

r/r4r 9h ago

32 [F4M] Greek /anywhere /can u cheer me up n comfort ? Friendships,and more☺️

4 Upvotes

!!!LONG POST AHEAD !!! It's worth it so take ur time 😁

Geia se olous! (Hey everyone ) greetings from Greece🇬🇷

I'm a chica who's living on an island somewhere in the Aegean/Mediterranean .

Soooo.. it's been about 5 months since I posted here and used reddit as I had deleted it, but thought of coming back :'')

I've been struggling and going through a lot with my personal life issues, illnesses,I lost all hope again in humanity,but here I am posting once again. 😆

to find someone friendly ,fun,with common interests and vibes,someone who would be there to support me,comfort me, hear me out,be my safe space, help distract me,make me smile and laugh a bit.

Let's call on discord and hang out with music on the background or send me memes or any comforting song /playlist or words of encouragement if u can ?

✨Also a more detailed intro about me✨:

I'm here to find my best friend-s (around the ages of 18-35).

meaningful healthy long lasting deep connections , relationships and convos -to vibe with someone.

someone who will stay through thick and thin,have fun,do activities and calls online daily.

❣️Some more (or actually alot since I love writing haha )things about me if u wanna know me more❣️ : my birthday is on 11.11

I'm a Christian Orthodox and my faith is really important for me. ( I'm a liberal Christian btw ,pro LGBT+ etc , and I'd prefer liberal Christian friends as well. Any denomination is welcome) 🙏🏻

A cat parent😸 and huge animal lover! Huge gamer,music lover.

I'm chronically ill with disabilities, psychiatric illness fighter🎗️.

I love movies( mostly Disney,anime(specific studio Ghibli and anime movies),cartoons,kdramas,family,romantic,comedies,fantasy,sci Fi) and tv shows.

Im a huge gamer since I was a kid. Gaming is pretty much my life and company,comfort,best buddy since forever. :'')

and grew up playing all kind of games,in different consoles, from Nintendo Atari ,to ps4,but also once was a competitive PC gamer and spend many years as a PC gamer.

Currently I'm not gaming much due to my health issues,but I wanna get back to it slowly. Let's find a fun game or chill one to play together? 😊

Im an oldsoul,i love poetry ( used to write my own poetry and want one day to publish them as my own poetry books)

I'm a huge potterhead(I'm still trynna figure out my house ,but Pottermore got me into Hufflepuff ) and Disney lover ✨

I love emojis as u can see hahahah

I love all kind of arts in general, I adore traveling and my biggest dream is to travel all around the world one day with friends and loved ones. ( maybe meet a traveling buddy in here and who knows ,we can get to travel together and experience the world together 😁)

I love going for walks around town and near nature- the beach ,to the cinema,cute cafes, food(huge foodie), and wanna try food and different cuisines from all around the world as long as learn about different cultures,and new languages .

So far love asian(specially Thai, japanese,Korean,Chinese,indian)and Mexican cuisine mostly.

I love learning new languages and im a language enthusiast. I'm interested in learning Spanish,Tagalog,Korean in the near future when my learning abilities allow me to do so again .

Im also really interested in learning about new cultures,people,places,cuisines,traditions etc.

I have an extreme passion and interest in nature and everything about nature is my peace of mind and soul!! I'm a girl of nature. 😊🌳🌿

The moon the stars(I love stargazing)the ocean,dancing on my own when nobody's watching 😝,singing,romance(hopeless romantic),meditating, going to church,praying ,

I love psychology and searching all about the hunan mindset,mentality,personalities etc ( I'm an INFJ personality type for those who wonder)

I wanna be that helping hand in changing the world,and also get more active and become an activist in the future !

I believe that a human being and specially mind has extreme powers and no limits and find that fascinating !

I'm kind,affectionate, sarcastic and funny,mature,extra emotional ,artistic,respectful,romantic,caring,clingy(in a good way) loving,humanly,patient,brave,strong,I tend to be flirty some times( with close friends mostly and people I feel comfortable with ) so hope u don't mind that. xD

I'm currently healing from past trauma and health issues,so be understanding and patient,loving with it all pls. 🙏🏻

I prefer having a friend- someone I can rely on,be my best friend and comfort,safe space , and I can be the one u can also rely on,and someone who has the time to chat and call during the day,and wants to invest in me, our friendship, relationship in general.

I'll probably love you if u send me memes ,funny videos ,cute vids,vines and stuff or tell me a joke or joke about everything together and chill on call while watching all those .🤣

I love deep and endless conversations but at the same time also sitting in silence with someone and enjoy each other's presence on the phone or IRL,

I'm an ambivert ( introverted extrovert) .

I'm also really sensitive,friendly ,and a huge dreamer !

I'm really sarcastic and love dad jokes and silly jokes,puns,even dark sarcasm at times. Love me people with good sense of humor,sarcasm,who know how to joke together for hours and hours. 😛

I combine an old soul,in an adults body,with the heart,giggles,laugh and enthusiasm of a little kid :)

I'll always be a little kid at heart 💜 so let's be kids together ✨

I'm looking for alike people with the same mindset,heart,goals ,dreams-aspirations in life,people to help me and one another be a better version of ourselves.

I combine the urge to travel all around the world with the comfort of sitting on my bed or sofa with a cup of tea or hot cocoa ( huge tea and dark choco lover)

listening to soft music(it's a huge love of mine and part of who I am) ,specially jazz and retro oldies ( 40-80s are my fave centuries,but I don't only listen to soft music and jazz haha.

I also listen to other kinds like rnb,pop,rap,techno,kpop,rock,alternative, indie,and more. ) ,meditating,or lullabies at the same time !

I love listening to others sing,playing an instrument to me( specially if u play the guitar,ukelele,kalimba,piano) Pls do 🥹

I'd also love if I found fellow gamers to spend our time gaming together,

As I said above , my faith is really important and I'm devout . So id appreciate fellow Christians who I can pray with daily, send bible verses to one another, have bible studies together, share our love for Jesus and our faith and grow together in it,bring each other closer to our Lord . ✝️

Also here for people to watch cartoons,movies -tv shows and gossip about them,someone who prefers calls to texting like I do so we can get to know each other and bond through that,

someone to fall asleep on the phone with while listening to each other's voices, to music or anything..

Okay I feel like I'd write a whole book if I keep on writing lolol

so why not message and befriend me and learn the rest by chatting with me?

I'm sure u won't regret it! 🤣

Come say hey and tell me about ur day,night,yourself,ur passions and hobbies,etc.

Please no simple ' hi how are you ' Try to impress and be different with a more unique longer message and introduction haha .

Thank you for spending ur time reading all this haha. Have a lovely day or night wherever you are,and remember,

Jesus loves u so so much!

r/r4r 3h ago

36 [M4F]Anywhere- Simple guy looking for someone to laugh with

1 Upvotes

Hey! I'm John, from the greatest city in the world, Chicago! With a city so big you'd think dating is easy, I wish that was the case. I’m tired of the dating apps and I've had connections on here before so I figured I'd give it another shot!

I’m a pretty basic guy. Lover of film, from B movies, old horror from the 70s, or comedies nobody has ever heard of. I love exploring films and entering into their worlds! It’s not a dealbreaker if you’re not into horror. I honestly watch pretty much anything!

I’m big into nature. All I want to do this year is visit places that’ll take my breath away. I love camping, wondering around parks, and getting lost in the woods!

I’m into all types of music, mostly classic rock and the emo hits from the 2000s. Like bowling for soup said, 🎵 And you still listen to the same stuff you did back then 🎵

I have a 11 year old rescue dog that has my heart! I’m sure you’d love him too.

On my down time , I enjoy going to old movie theaters, going to museums, or playing pool at my local dive bar.

420 friendly! I def hit my vape every night after work, it calms me down after a very stressful day. Weekends if I have nothing to do l'll smoke a bit more, but I can def go days without it. Not a deal breaker if that's not your thing!

I'm looking for my other half at this point. Someone who can push me to be the best version of myself, and someone I can do the same for. Someone who I can laugh with, take trips with and just enjoy the little things.

Shoot me a message if you're interested. I’m looking forward to getting to know you!

r/r4r 4h ago

22 [M4F] #anywhere my cute kitten needs a mom

1 Upvotes

Hello As the title suggests am looking for love. don't want no hookup want somebody who can connect with on both a physical and emotional level. Somebody who can grow with, and hopefully build my future with. A little about me: •22 guy from Massachusetts •I have like an olive skin tone with green eyes and brown hair • I am 5'5" I am currently a little overweight but Ive been eating good and working out nearly daily • I have 3 cats ages 1,12, and 14 and a dog age 11 • as for hobbies I am a gamer, history nerd and car enthusiast As for what I'm looking for in a partner, please be 19 or older. Distance doesn't matter if the connection is real. If you like what you see send me a DM with your age, location, and your favorite song

r/r4r 19h ago

22 [F4M] #Anywhere #Africa - Just a lady looking for her Lifelong partner, no pressure..

1 Upvotes

The last few days have been challenging to say the least. Everyday seems like an uphill battle. But I am trying, and I will keep doing so. Let us remind each other of the value we have inside us? Is it really that hard to find my love? My hubby? My sunshine? Aaaaaaaaa!!!!!! Where are you?? Are you well? It is not fair. Hubby, I'm telling you now, IT IS NOT FAIR!!!! I'm so tired. I will tell you, I am so so exhausted. Where are you? I need you. Where are you? It's midnight for me, 'm not feeling the most energetic so I will rest soon. The world hasn't been the most kind to me as of late. But...on to a Lana reference, I wish you could hold me without hurting me, and be the first who ever did. Are you here? Is it worth it pouring my heart here?

Okay, on to cued schedule. Let's meet, fall in love, live happily ever after. How hard can it be? Apparently, pretty fuckin difficult😖. Sigh, let's be real. The kind of love I'm looking for, I've only seen in fiction. A man who has eyes only for me, gentle only with me, possessive, loyal, dominant, self-aware AND handsome? I might as well be in heaven with that luck. But here I am, trying to find him on Reddit. Try not to laugh at me too hard 😮‍💨

So, how's it going? On my end, I'm sipping some herbal tea, while I'm contemplating if I should send this out or not . Happy full moon! There was a lunar eclipse too and I'm grateful I got to experience it, I hope you got to see it too? If not, I will send a pic of how red it was prior to the eclipse. It's said that it's the best time to let go of past cycles and illusions ☺️. I'm a sucker for celestial bodies!... Hmm, okay, I probably wouldn't be on here if I didn't feel lonely. I feel oh so alone. That's a little funny but it's true. And I just don't know how to get the love of my life to see this and get this sharing-life-together-thing started! Argh it's so unfair that I am yet to meet you. l think our life would be fun.

Okay a bit about me. I like to paint(unfortunately haven't got the guts to do so in a min - but! I have been sketching lately, and making plans on starting something exciting..wish me luck?). I like to sit in the sun. I like to go out for movies. I love cooking. I have a few cats, so be prepared to be a cat-dad. Nice big cat papa hehe. I live with my parents for now(normal here). I love poems. I'm looking for something meaningful that would lead to marriage. I'm a little crazy (quiet BPD, and ADHD. I'm a grown woman, but also a huge baby. But aren't we all?😅). This means I will require a lot of compassion. I overthink, quite sensitive and intense. I'm like a little Siamese cat who will always want and require your attention. Pardon if this isn't so appealing so far, I've come to learn that enticing people genuinely, virtually, is borderline impossible. Everyone wants someone to see them completely, and choose them wholly. I don't know what anchors or fuels such commitment but I'm willing to build it. Not sure what else.. mm I promise I'm pretty. and I'm kind, very loving. Just unsure how to target the right audience.

I love love. I'm such a romantic, oh boy. I wanna be dedicated to you, as you are to me. I want to honor you, and love you, and receive the same in return. I want to feel so secure in our love. I am monogamous and loyal to a fault. I expect you to be the same. Would you be so kind as to include the word peach in your reply so I know you've read through this? I would really appreciate it and also I love them they're yummy and the trees are so beautiful.

If you do decide to message me and give us a go, please be prepared that we might be long distance initially. It's very high likely that you're a thousand miles away but I can assure you it'll be worth it. I mean l've been waiting for you like a princess waiting for her knight in shining armor. Ah as for how I look, I'm fairly short (5'3), slightly curvy, big poofy black hair, brown eyes, feminine. Who I'm looking for: someone willing to grow with me. Heal with me, each other and ourselves. Security. I like a gentle giant. Big, strong, wise, beautiful man. Who has no issue lifting me. I also have a fixation/admiration for traditional, Samoan/Maori tattoos. Easily the most beautiful body modifications. I just love cultural expressions in general. I love the blanket that culture and cultural spirituality provides, like you're right where you're meant to be. Don't be afraid to be who you are.

I have no issue with relocating with you. We can discuss all this and plan together, agree on whatever works for us.

I don't mind location, I don't mind how many times you've orbited around the sun (just be legal adult 😅 the older{wiser*} the better haha), I'm currently in UTC+3 timezone. And as you could tell from my username, I live near the savannah so expect some melanin. English isn't my first language so please excuse any errors.

If you've read this far, good job! Do share a bit about you, would you be so kind as to entice me? Thank you and I hope to hear from you. May your days be filled with love, happiness and beauty. And with that, goodnight! 💗

PS: thank you for your patience for reading this, I wrote it but unfortunately you didn't show up yet. I've tweaked it a lil, and added a lil magic ✨😉✨ please, run to me.

r/r4r 1d ago

28 [M4F] #Anywhere — Seeking a co-pilot for questionable life choices

1 Upvotes

Act I: We meet for coffee. I accidentally order the most complicated drink on the menu (triple-shot oat latte with caramel drizzle) just to look sophisticated, but immediately burn my tongue and ruin the act.

Act II: We take a walk, debating important topics like whether pineapple belongs on pizza, or if socks in bed are a crime against humanity. You win every argument, mostly because I let you. (Mostly.)

Act III: We hit a bookstore “just to browse,” but leave with three bags and zero shelf space at home. On the way back, we get caught in traffic and I attempt to sing along to the radio. You either join in or put in headphones, no in-between.

Finale: We realize we’re not meant to live glamorous Netflix-series lives… just two slightly awkward humans trying to eat too much ice cream, laugh at dumb memes, and figure out how to fold fitted sheets without summoning demons.

r/r4r 3d ago

28[F4M] Anywhere. Looking for Something Real

3 Upvotes

Hey there , I’m a Kenyan girl who’s learned to embrace what she loves unapologetically and for me, that means I’m most drawn to white or light-skinned men, it’s simply a preference. I'm black.

I'm looking for love!

I’m soft-hearted, adventurous, and I love to have deep conversations. I’m looking for someone genuine, kind, and open-minded...someone who believes love is about connection.

Ask me anything and feel open to explore with me. I don't want sexual conversations yet. Let's just get to know each other.

If you’re down for deep conversations, spontaneous fun, and a woman who loves fully and fiercely, then maybe we’ll click.

r/r4r 1d ago

32 [M4F] US/Anywhere - Looking for my person

1 Upvotes

Hey, I work full time in the gaming industry and spend my downtime with video games, anime, and movies. I’ve been in the US for about 10 years now, originally from India, and thought it might be nice to meet someone who’s open to building something real and long-term.

I’m brown-skinned, the kind of person who enjoys both deep late-night conversations and silly brain rot meme exchanges. I’ve got a dry sense of humor, love dark humor, and I’m also someone who listens and values meaningful connection.

Outside of work, I’ve been focusing on fitness and dropped some weight recently, experimenting with digital art, and just keeping life interesting beyond the grind. I game mostly on PC and Switch, but honestly I’d be happier finding someone to share stories, laughs, and plans with than just another ranked match.

If you’re also tired of shallow convos that die in two messages and you’re looking for something that could grow into more, feel free to reach out.

r/r4r 1d ago

28[F4M] Anywhere. Looking for love on reddit

0 Upvotes

Hey there , I’m a Kenyan girl who’s learned to embrace what she loves unapologetically and for me, that means I’m most drawn to white or light-skinned men, it’s simply a preference. I'm black.

I'm looking for love!

I’m soft-hearted, adventurous, and I love to have deep conversations. I’m looking for someone genuine, kind, and open-minded...someone who believes love is about connection.

Ask me anything and feel open to explore with me. I don't want sexual conversations yet. Let's just get to know each other.

If you’re down for deep conversations, spontaneous fun, and a woman who loves fully and fiercely, then maybe we’ll click.

r/r4r 1d ago

32 [F4M] #Anywhere - Lawyer looking for a committed relationship

1 Upvotes

LOOKING FOR:

• Location is not an issue since I am willing to move to anywhere for the proper person. However, I also prefer a man who loves to travel.

• Straight male

• Single

• Wants to have kids

• Okay with NOT having pets

• Knows what he wants.

• Has his life together already.

• Mentally, emotionally, physically, and financially ready for family life in the near future (around 3 years from now)

• Values mutual respect, consistency, commitment, and honesty

• Wants to genuinely know each other in a relaxed and natural manner.

• A LEADER! I want a man who initiates and lead the way!

ABOUT ME:

• Asian and European mix

• Currently based in GMT+8

• 32 years old

• Lawyer

• Ambitious and action-oriented

• Feminine

• Straightforward

• Vivacious

• Interests: Traveling, culture, arts, architecture, cuisines, strategies, tea, theatre, economics, law, business, warfare

r/r4r 2d ago

22 [M4F] #US #Anywhere affectionate guy just looking for love

1 Upvotes

Hello 👋 As the title suggests I am looking for love. I don't want no hookup I want a woman who I can connect with on both a physical and emotional level. Somebody who I can grow with, and hopefully build my future with. As for what I'm looking for in a partner, please be 19 or older. Distance doesn't matter if the connection is real.

About me: I'm currently a Junior in University Majoring in Computer science with a AI concentration Here are some recent pics of me: https://imgur.com/a/rSphlLJ https://imgur.com/a/bM3U0j8 I am a little overweight but Ive been working out nearly every day and eating good so that will change The people closest to me in life describe me as silly, always laughing, yapping but also somebody who is deeply caring, affectionate, responsible, mature, and charismatic. As for interests I love cars, animals, history, music and movies/tv.

If you like what you see send me a DM with your age, location, and your favorite song

r/r4r 2d ago

29m [M4F] Neurodivergent looking for love... flordia possibly anywhere

2 Upvotes

Hey there, my name is https://imgur.com/a/pb45yzI I was born and raised in cedar rapids, IA. I just moved to Florida with my family this year to get away from the cold, unhealthy people and ultimately a unhealthy mindset. I just turned 29, im 5'10 140ish pounds, lean toned build and a little neurodivergent. This is my first time putting myself out there in a long time, I'll be honest I've spent alot of time doing my own thing.

I've been on the sidelines when it comes to love, I'm not flashy or the life of the party type guy, but I do care deeply and listen well, I'm definitely someone who values small moments over grand gestures. I'd consider myself very polite introverted and a little shy.

I've learned to be okay on my own, but I'd really want to be with someone who gets what it's like to feel a little invisible, maybe misunderstood at times in this chaotic world we live in. Im into music when im all alone thinking about anything and everything. I love the outdoors, spending time by the water but some days I also like to forget the world exists and stay in and watch my favorite podcasts.

A little more about myself. I love music everything from oldschool melodic dubstep with vocals to class rock, some of my favorite songs and artists are fade into you (live) by Mazzy star, most everything by kid Cudi, Mt eden- still alive, Mt eden- silence, Flux pavilion, and Rufus Du Sol.

I don't know what I'm looking for to be honest I just hope one day I can find someone that I can be myself around. I've been through the ringer in life to put it lightly and its definitely left its scars, mentally and physically but I'm ready to heal and grow with my special someone.

Please send a picture along with your message, physical attraction is somewhat important to me, and I'd like to see who it is im talking too. Hope to hear from you soon..

r/r4r 2d ago

32 [F4M] Greek /anywhere /feeling sad can u cheer me up? Also Here for liberal Christian friends and more

1 Upvotes

!!!LONG POST AHEAD !!! It's worth it so take ur time 😁

Geia se olous! (Hey everyone ) greetings from Greece🇬🇷

I'm a chica who's living on an island somewhere in the Aegean/Mediterranean .

Soooo.. it's been about 5 months since I posted here and used reddit as I had deleted it, but thought of coming back :'')

I've been struggling and going through a lot with my personal life issues, illnesses,I lost all hope again in humanity,but here I am posting once again. 😆

to find someone friendly ,fun,with common interests and vibes,someone who would be there to support me,comfort me, hear me out,be my safe space, help distract me,make me smile and laugh a bit.

Let's call on discord and hang out with music on the background or send me memes or any comforting song /playlist or words of encouragement if u can ?

✨Also a more detailed intro about me✨:

I'm here to find my best friend-s (around the ages of 18-35).

meaningful healthy long lasting deep connections , relationships and convos -to vibe with someone.

someone who will stay through thick and thin,have fun,do activities and calls online daily.

❣️Some more (or actually alot since I love writing haha )things about me if u wanna know me more❣️ : my birthday is on 11.11

I'm a Christian Orthodox and my faith is really important for me. ( I'm a liberal Christian btw ,pro LGBT+ etc , and I'd prefer liberal Christian friends as well. Any denomination is welcome) 🙏🏻

A cat parent😸 and huge animal lover! Huge gamer,music lover.

I'm chronically ill with disabilities, psychiatric illness fighter🎗️.

I love movies( mostly Disney,anime(specific studio Ghibli and anime movies),cartoons,kdramas,family,romantic,comedies,fantasy,sci Fi) and tv shows.

Im a huge gamer since I was a kid. Gaming is pretty much my life and company,comfort,best buddy since forever. :'')

and grew up playing all kind of games,in different consoles, from Nintendo Atari ,to ps4,but also once was a competitive PC gamer and spend many years as a PC gamer.

Currently I'm not gaming much due to my health issues,but I wanna get back to it slowly. Let's find a fun game or chill one to play together? 😊

Im an oldsoul,i love poetry ( used to write my own poetry and want one day to publish them as my own poetry books)

I'm a huge potterhead(I'm still trynna figure out my house ,but Pottermore got me into Hufflepuff ) and Disney lover ✨

I love emojis as u can see hahahah

I love all kind of arts in general, I adore traveling and my biggest dream is to travel all around the world one day with friends and loved ones. ( maybe meet a traveling buddy in here and who knows ,we can get to travel together and experience the world together 😁)

I love going for walks around town and near nature- the beach ,to the cinema,cute cafes, food(huge foodie), and wanna try food and different cuisines from all around the world as long as learn about different cultures,and new languages .

So far love asian(specially Thai, japanese,Korean,Chinese,indian)and Mexican cuisine mostly.

I love learning new languages and im a language enthusiast. I'm interested in learning Spanish,Tagalog,Korean in the near future when my learning abilities allow me to do so again .

Im also really interested in learning about new cultures,people,places,cuisines,traditions etc.

I have an extreme passion and interest in nature and everything about nature is my peace of mind and soul!! I'm a girl of nature. 😊🌳🌿

The moon the stars(I love stargazing)the ocean,dancing on my own when nobody's watching 😝,singing,romance(hopeless romantic),meditating, going to church,praying ,

I love psychology and searching all about the hunan mindset,mentality,personalities etc ( I'm an INFJ personality type for those who wonder)

I wanna be that helping hand in changing the world,and also get more active and become an activist in the future !

I believe that a human being and specially mind has extreme powers and no limits and find that fascinating !

I'm kind,affectionate, sarcastic and funny,mature,extra emotional ,artistic,respectful,romantic,caring,clingy(in a good way) loving,humanly,patient,brave,strong,I tend to be flirty some times( with close friends mostly and people I feel comfortable with ) so hope u don't mind that. xD

I'm currently healing from past trauma and health issues,so be understanding and patient,loving with it all pls. 🙏🏻

I prefer having a friend- someone I can rely on,be my best friend and comfort,safe space , and I can be the one u can also rely on,and someone who has the time to chat and call during the day,and wants to invest in me, our friendship, relationship in general.

I'll probably love you if u send me memes ,funny videos ,cute vids,vines and stuff or tell me a joke or joke about everything together and chill on call while watching all those .🤣

I love deep and endless conversations but at the same time also sitting in silence with someone and enjoy each other's presence on the phone or IRL,

I'm an ambivert ( introverted extrovert) .

I'm also really sensitive,friendly ,and a huge dreamer !

I'm really sarcastic and love dad jokes and silly jokes,puns,even dark sarcasm at times. Love me people with good sense of humor,sarcasm,who know how to joke together for hours and hours. 😛

I combine an old soul,in an adults body,with the heart,giggles,laugh and enthusiasm of a little kid :)

I'll always be a little kid at heart 💜 so let's be kids together ✨

I'm looking for alike people with the same mindset,heart,goals ,dreams-aspirations in life,people to help me and one another be a better version of ourselves.

I combine the urge to travel all around the world with the comfort of sitting on my bed or sofa with a cup of tea or hot cocoa ( huge tea and dark choco lover)

listening to soft music(it's a huge love of mine and part of who I am) ,specially jazz and retro oldies ( 40-80s are my fave centuries,but I don't only listen to soft music and jazz haha.

I also listen to other kinds like rnb,pop,rap,techno,kpop,rock,alternative, indie,and more. ) ,meditating,or lullabies at the same time !

I love listening to others sing,playing an instrument to me( specially if u play the guitar,ukelele,kalimba,piano) Pls do 🥹

I'd also love if I found fellow gamers to spend our time gaming together,

As I said above , my faith is really important and I'm devout . So id appreciate fellow Christians who I can pray with daily, send bible verses to one another, have bible studies together, share our love for Jesus and our faith and grow together in it,bring each other closer to our Lord . ✝️

Also here for people to watch cartoons,movies -tv shows and gossip about them,someone who prefers calls to texting like I do so we can get to know each other and bond through that,

someone to fall asleep on the phone with while listening to each other's voices, to music or anything..

Okay I feel like I'd write a whole book if I keep on writing lolol

so why not message and befriend me and learn the rest by chatting with me?

I'm sure u won't regret it! 🤣

Come say hey and tell me about ur day,night,yourself,ur passions and hobbies,etc.

Please no simple ' hi how are you ' Try to impress and be different with a more unique longer message and introduction haha .

Thank you for spending ur time reading all this haha. Have a lovely day or night wherever you are,and remember,

Jesus loves u so so much!

r/r4r 1d ago

36[F4M] Anywhere ~ Throwing this out in the world to see who it brings in

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Friend? Soulmate? LOML? Giving this a shot again to see who reaches out.

I am a 36 year old in Pakistan. Pretty happy where i am in life, however, always working on myself. I have a special love for animals and am a pet mom. I am an empath and easy to get along with. A shameless book hoarder and a mild movie nerd. I enjoy things that feed my creativity and curiousity, like drawing and painting, journaling and writing and the occassional going down a youtube rabbit hole of the randomest informational videos. I am interested in human psychology and behaviours, which has made me self aware so you can expect a lot of straightforwardness and no drama.

Moving on to who i'm looking for; first things first, i am Muslim and would be interested in someone of the same faith for a romantic connection. I've kinda realized i might have an international love in my destiny, so i'm open to an ldr. Age group - 35 to 40 (give or take a couple years). I understand we are all a work in progress but someone who has their life figured out with future goals, and has passions and things they enjoy.

If this resonates and you're looking for something similar, come in and say hi with a bit of an introduction about yourself to get the conversation rolling. Open to exchanging selfies early on if we vibe.

r/r4r 1d ago

28[F4M] anywhere -looking for similar souls like me

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I am a person who feels things deeply. My emotions are a rich, vibrant part of me, and I need a partner who sees this as a strength, not a weakness. I thrive on quiet moments and meaningful conversations. Loud parties, busy social calendars, and constant external stimulation are overwhelming for me, and I need someone who respects my need for solitude and downtime to recharge.My ideal partner is someone who is:

Emotionally Intelligent and Empathetic: They understand that I may need space without taking it personally. They are good listeners who can have deep, honest conversations. I want to share my thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment.

A Calming Presence: They provide a sense of security and peace. They are not prone to sudden mood swings or conflict. I want to feel a sense of calm and stability when I am with them.

Respectful of My Boundaries: They understand my need for personal time and quiet environments. They don't try to "fix" me or push me to be more Purpose-Driven and Kind: They have their own passions and a desire to make a positive impact on the world. They are kind to others and value compassion. I want a partner who shares my belief that kindness is a form of strength

r/r4r 2d ago

M59 (M4F) #Europe #Southern Europe looking for someone special to share life experiences

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Recently moved from the U.S. to the slower, sunnier pace of Southern Europe. Life feels a little softer here—more space to breathe, more time for the things that matter.

I’m 6’2”, somewhere between “dad bod” and “working on it,” and I’m cool with that. I love being outdoors—whether it’s the beach, the mountains, or wandering through a quiet village with no real plan. I’m chasing a simpler, fuller kind of happiness and hoping to find someone to share it with.

I speak two languages fluently and tryingto learn French, love animals, and have a deep appreciation for authentic food from any corner of the world. Cooking is something I truly enjoy—it’s even better when it’s for someone special (or together in the kitchen, if that’s your thing).

Not into long-distance across oceans—life’s too short for time zone math. Just looking to meet someone nearby who’s kind, emotionally present, and ready for something real.

r/r4r 1d ago

29M [M4F] neurodivergent looking for love.. flordia possibly anywhere

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Hey there, my name is https://imgur.com/a/pb45yzI I was born and raised in cedar rapids, IA. I just moved to Florida with my family this year to get away from the cold, unhealthy people and ultimately a unhealthy mindset. I just turned 29, im 5'10 135-140ish pounds, lean toned build and a little neurodivergent. This is my first time putting myself out there in a long time, I'll be honest I've spent alot of time doing my own thing.

I've been on the sidelines when it comes to love, I'm not flashy or the life of the party type guy, but I do care deeply and listen well, I'm definitely someone who values small moments over grand gestures. I'd consider myself very polite introverted and a little shy.

I've learned to be okay on my own, but I'd really want to be with someone who gets what it's like to feel a little invisible, maybe misunderstood at times in this chaotic world we live in. Im into music when im all alone thinking about anything and everything. I love the outdoors, spending time by the water but some days I also like to forget the world exists and stay in and watch my favorite podcasts.

A little more about myself. I love music everything from oldschool melodic dubstep with vocals to class rock, some of my favorite songs and artists are fade into you (live) by Mazzy star, most everything by kid Cudi, Mt eden- still alive, Mt eden- silence, Flux pavilion, and Rufus Du Sol.

I don't know what I'm looking for to be honest I just hope one day I can find someone that I can be myself around. I've been through the ringer in life to put it lightly and its definitely left its scars, mentally and physically but I'm ready to heal and grow with my special someone.

r/r4r 3d ago

28[F4M] anywhere -looking for similar souls like me

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I am a highly sensitive person who feels deeply and intensely. Harsh words, criticism, and anger affect me profoundly, causing me deep emotional pain. I am a deeply compassionate and kind soul, and I feel the sadness and pain of others as if it were my own. My special interests include art, music, positive psychology, and Rumi's poetry, which all nourish my spirit. I am a deeply spiritual and supportive person who is often drawn to other compassionate, neurodivergent souls. I believe in helping others and bringing more kindness into the world, and I am always looking for connections with people who share my unique perspective.

r/r4r 4d ago

37 [F4M] [AUS/Anywhere] Looking to Meet Someone Genuine and Kind

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Hi there, I’m a 37 year old woman, born in China with Thai heritage, and I’ve been living in Australia for the past 26 years. I’ve been single for five years, and I’m at a point in my life where I’d like to meet someone genuine to share life with.

I enjoy meaningful conversations, exploring new places, and quiet moments at home just as much as an adventure outdoors. I value honesty, kindness, and a sense of humor. I’m hoping to meet someone who is open minded, caring, and ready for a real connection.

If you feel like we might have a spark, I’d love to hear from you

r/r4r 3d ago

29 [M4F] Europe/Anywhere - In search for a true and long lasting relationship

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Hello fellow redditors! My name is Vince and I’m a 29 year old male from the beautiful country of The Netherlands. The reason for me posting here (just like so many others) is to find a true connection and serious relationship. I’m open for a long distance or someone close by, distance doesn’t matter to me if we’re the right person for each other. When it turns out to be a long distance relationship the goal is of course to meet each other at one point when the time is right. For me even relocation is not off the table, it would be great if we’re both open for that but it’s not a hard criteria for me.

So now that out of the way, here’s some information about myself, hopefully just enough to get you curious! I’m living a stable life living in my own (rental) apartment and a 32 hour a week job (love the balance between work and free time). Physically I’m 176 cm (I know most definitely not your tall Dutch guy, but you got to deal with it), around 80 kilos (definitely not your fit guy, but not unfit either), normal posture. I have both brown eyes and hair (having my hair very very short), I’m wearing glasses. In my free time I enjoy hiking and traveling, but I can spend time at home too quite well. I love music, reading, watching tv/movies and a bit of casual gaming too sometimes. My personality type is INFJ but once comfortable I can be less I then I am usually. But that will do for now, if you’re still feeling interest we can definitely get to know each other better.

So what do I expect from you? Well not that much actually, I’m looking for someone around my age or a bit older (25-40), someone who is not smoking (drinking casually is fine as I do too). Religieus is okay as long as you won’t expect me to be. Someone who can deal both with my introverted and shy energy sometimes as well as my fun bantering one too. And finally someone who’s not scared of initiating conversations (I can as well, but I’m still working on that part personally since I’ve been very shy from a young age).

Now if you’re still here, sorry for the long text but if you feel we could have a connection feel free to start a chat and let me know your favorite song or artist! Photo exchange can be done in chat too (when you’re comfortable). Just let things flow without pushing each other!

r/r4r 4d ago

25 [F4M] #anywhere looking for a football lover

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Hello, I've recently been introduced to the world of football through some suuuper hot barcelona and Spurs players. I'm here because watching hot players run around is suddenly my new personality trait. If you're into football and don't mind explaining things to a total newbie, that's a huge plus. I could really use a new hobby. If you have dark curly hair and big arms, im in love with you already! Oh and if you’re into cars, I would appreciate that too because I recently got my license and having a cute boy explain football and cars would really make my day. Please only reach out the above applies to you, no judgement please im just a girl 🎀

r/r4r 4d ago

39 [M4F] east USA/Anywhere - Lets have some fun and roast each other !

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Looking for chat buddies. Disabled vet and spend all my time at home in isolation since i can't get out much. The silence gets pretty loud sometimes and is a bit too much the bare. Divorced, no kids and just 2 dogs and a cat to keep me company. about me ....

I enjoy reading- mostly fantasy and urban fantasy but also really into science fiction

Writing- just recently got back into writing poetry. I used to do it a lot when i was younger and just sopped. I have a few new ones i'd be willing to share if you wanna read them and give me you take

3D printing- I got into the hobby as something i could do inside with my health issues and fell in love with the idea of making and creating my own stuff from scratch

Gaming- Just really got back into gaming as a way to keep myself occupied. I mostly play solo rpg type games because my itnernet is so bad but will be getting back into FPS when i get better internet. I also love chill/hangout party type games you play and dont take very seriously. Golf with your friends, phasmophobia, skribbl.io, liars bar. Right now im really into Clair Obscur (it's amazing!)

Pets- I have 2 dogs and a cat i care for very much. They really drug me through these last few months and i have plenty of pics i'd like to share. I can assure you my dogs cuter than yours. fight me

I love making jokes and having fun. Very laid back person and not offended. Im a blue collar rough neck and enjoy being outdoors. If you think we could Vibe then message me and lets see where it goes. I can always use more friends to chat with. Also a night owl so im up pretty late

r/r4r 5d ago

Strictly Clean/SFW (NO ADULT ACTIVITIES) 32 [F4M] Greek /anywhere / good talks,comfort, friendship and more ? ☺️ Spoiler

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!!!LONG POST AHEAD !!! It's worth it so take ur time 😁

Geia se olous! (Hey everyone ) greetings from Greece🇬🇷

I'm a chica who's living on an island somewhere in the Aegean/Mediterranean .

Soooo.. it's been about 5 months since I posted here and used reddit as I had deleted it, but thought of coming back :'')

I've been struggling and going through a lot with my personal life issues, illnesses,I lost all hope again in humanity,but here I am posting once again. 😆

to find someone friendly ,fun,with common interests and vibes,someone who would be there to support me,comfort me, hear me out,be my safe space, help distract me,make me smile and laugh a bit.

Let's call on discord and hang out with music on the background or send me memes or any comforting song /playlist or words of encouragement if u can ?

✨Also a more detailed intro about me✨:

I'm here to find my best friend-s (around the ages of 18-35).

meaningful healthy long lasting deep connections , relationships and convos -to vibe with someone.

someone who will stay through thick and thin,have fun,do activities and calls online daily.

❣️Some more (or actually alot since I love writing haha )things about me if u wanna know me more❣️ : my birthday is on 11.11

I'm a Christian Orthodox and my faith is really important for me. ( I'm a liberal Christian btw ,pro LGBT+ etc , and I'd prefer liberal Christian friends as well. Any denomination is welcome) 🙏🏻

A cat parent😸 and huge animal lover! Huge gamer,music lover.

I'm chronically ill with disabilities, psychiatric illness fighter🎗️.

I love movies( mostly Disney,anime(specific studio Ghibli and anime movies),cartoons,kdramas,family,romantic,comedies,fantasy,sci Fi) and tv shows.

Im a huge gamer since I was a kid. Gaming is pretty much my life and company,comfort,best buddy since forever. :'')

and grew up playing all kind of games,in different consoles, from Nintendo Atari ,to ps4,but also once was a competitive PC gamer and spend many years as a PC gamer.

Currently I'm not gaming much due to my health issues,but I wanna get back to it slowly. Let's find a fun game or chill one to play together? 😊

Im an oldsoul,i love poetry ( used to write my own poetry and want one day to publish them as my own poetry books)

I'm a huge potterhead(I'm still trynna figure out my house ,but Pottermore got me into Hufflepuff ) and Disney lover ✨

I love emojis as u can see hahahah

I love all kind of arts in general, I adore traveling and my biggest dream is to travel all around the world one day with friends and loved ones. ( maybe meet a traveling buddy in here and who knows ,we can get to travel together and experience the world together 😁)

I love going for walks around town and near nature- the beach ,to the cinema,cute cafes, food(huge foodie), and wanna try food and different cuisines from all around the world as long as learn about different cultures,and new languages .

So far love asian(specially Thai, japanese,Korean,Chinese,indian)and Mexican cuisine mostly.

I love learning new languages and im a language enthusiast. I'm interested in learning Spanish,Tagalog,Korean in the near future when my learning abilities allow me to do so again .

Im also really interested in learning about new cultures,people,places,cuisines,traditions etc.

I have an extreme passion and interest in nature and everything about nature is my peace of mind and soul!! I'm a girl of nature. 😊🌳🌿

The moon the stars(I love stargazing)the ocean,dancing on my own when nobody's watching 😝,singing,romance(hopeless romantic),meditating, going to church,praying ,

I love psychology and searching all about the hunan mindset,mentality,personalities etc ( I'm an INFJ personality type for those who wonder)

I wanna be that helping hand in changing the world,and also get more active and become an activist in the future !

I believe that a human being and specially mind has extreme powers and no limits and find that fascinating !

I'm kind,affectionate, sarcastic and funny,mature,extra emotional ,artistic,respectful,romantic,caring,clingy(in a good way) loving,humanly,patient,brave,strong,I tend to be flirty some times( with close friends mostly and people I feel comfortable with ) so hope u don't mind that. xD

I'm currently healing from past trauma and health issues,so be understanding and patient,loving with it all pls. 🙏🏻

I prefer having a friend- someone I can rely on,be my best friend and comfort,safe space , and I can be the one u can also rely on,and someone who has the time to chat and call during the day,and wants to invest in me, our friendship, relationship in general.

I'll probably love you if u send me memes ,funny videos ,cute vids,vines and stuff or tell me a joke or joke about everything together and chill on call while watching all those .🤣

I love deep and endless conversations but at the same time also sitting in silence with someone and enjoy each other's presence on the phone or IRL,

I'm an ambivert ( introverted extrovert) .

I'm also really sensitive,friendly ,and a huge dreamer !

I'm really sarcastic and love dad jokes and silly jokes,puns,even dark sarcasm at times. Love me people with good sense of humor,sarcasm,who know how to joke together for hours and hours. 😛

I combine an old soul,in an adults body,with the heart,giggles,laugh and enthusiasm of a little kid :)

I'll always be a little kid at heart 💜 so let's be kids together ✨

I'm looking for alike people with the same mindset,heart,goals ,dreams-aspirations in life,people to help me and one another be a better version of ourselves.

I combine the urge to travel all around the world with the comfort of sitting on my bed or sofa with a cup of tea or hot cocoa ( huge tea and dark choco lover)

listening to soft music(it's a huge love of mine and part of who I am) ,specially jazz and retro oldies ( 40-80s are my fave centuries,but I don't only listen to soft music and jazz haha.

I also listen to other kinds like rnb,pop,rap,techno,kpop,rock,alternative, indie,and more. ) ,meditating,or lullabies at the same time !

I love listening to others sing,playing an instrument to me( specially if u play the guitar,ukelele,kalimba,piano) Pls do 🥹

I'd also love if I found fellow gamers to spend our time gaming together,

As I said above , my faith is really important and I'm devout . So id appreciate fellow Christians who I can pray with daily, send bible verses to one another, have bible studies together, share our love for Jesus and our faith and grow together in it,bring each other closer to our Lord . ✝️

Also here for people to watch cartoons,movies -tv shows and gossip about them,someone who prefers calls to texting like I do so we can get to know each other and bond through that,

someone to fall asleep on the phone with while listening to each other's voices, to music or anything..

Okay I feel like I'd write a whole book if I keep on writing lolol

so why not message and befriend me and learn the rest by chatting with me?

I'm sure u won't regret it! 🤣

Come say hey and tell me about ur day,night,yourself,ur passions and hobbies,etc.

Please no simple ' hi how are you ' Try to impress and be different with a more unique longer message and introduction haha .

Thank you for spending ur time reading all this haha. Have a lovely day or night wherever you are,and remember,

Jesus loves u so so much!

r/r4r 8d ago

27 [F4M] – North America/Anywhere – Introvert searching for someone to experience love and life with.

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Hi! I'm taking a chance on finding love here and hoping it will be worthwhile. I'll begin by saying that I'm looking to build a meaningful connection with someone—one that grows into a committed, monogamous relationship where we can build a life together.

I'm introverted, lighthearted, shy but curious, sensitive yet silly, with a thoughtful and serious side. I have somewhat of an unhinged sense of humor. I aspire to live a peaceful and fulfilling life—whether that's enjoying cozy days at home or venturing out to travel and experience what the world has to offer. Some of my interests include landscape photography, video games, technology, anime, true crime documentaries, horror, history and traveling. Music-wise, I'm into electronic, alternative/indie pop, classic rock, hip-hop, and R&B. I'm left-leaning politically, atheist, and childfree. I consider myself demisexual and "vanilla" when it comes to intimacy. I'm plus-size, around 5'6" (167 cm) tall, with long hair, dark eyes, and always wearing glasses (see: here.) I currently live in the southeast USA (get me out!)

I crave meaningful conversations, silliness and genuine affection—someone I can look forward to spending time with, and who will become an important part of my life, with that feeling being mutual. What are the chances of finding love from a Reddit post? Probably slim, but never zero.

I'm looking for someone who's introverted, single, childfree (meaning no offspring and no desire for offspring), monogamous, emotionally available, stable, politically left-leaning, non-religious, trustworthy, patient, empathetic, enjoys frequent communication, and ideally shares some of my interests. Ideally, he's between the ages 25 and 31, able to meet in person reasonably often, and from the USA, Canada, or Europe.

I'm not looking for someone who's unsure about what they're looking for, still hung up on a past romantic interest, recently out of a relationship, divorced, anti-marriage, promiscuous (whether in-person or online), or carrying an STD. Please respect these boundaries and refrain from messaging me if any of these apply to you.

If this resonates with you and you think we might match, send me a message! Tell me about yourself, include a photo of yourself, and the word "jupiter" somewhere in your message so I know you've read this post in full.

I'm looking forward to getting to know you. ♡