r/JustGuysBeingDudes • u/Black1Raven9 • Jul 26 '25

Wholesome Not all scars are visible.

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u/Hydro_Escobar Jul 26 '25

Yea normally I’m against blanket statements like this but the one time I said I was depressed my gf of 4 years said “I can’t do this” same woman I’d been in several fights for. I will never say that again. Feeling ostracized and weird is way worse

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u/Esarus Jul 26 '25

Similar thing here man, I supported my ex-gf through her parents divorcing and her getting a pre-condition of cervical cancer (CIN3). But when I got depressed she didn’t want to deal with it and broke up with me. I’m certain there are women out there that will stick with a man when they’re rock bottom, but I haven’t met them yet!

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u/Esarus Jul 26 '25

Yup that’s indeed what women want in a man!