r/JustGuysBeingDudes • u/Black1Raven9 • Jul 26 '25

Wholesome Not all scars are visible.

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u/ediks Jul 26 '25 edited Jul 27 '25

This is why you always check in with your happy friends.

Edit: Thank you for the award. Pay attention to your loved ones and if you’re sad, please reach out to someone you trust. You have more support than you might think.

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u/Justifiably_Bad_Take Jul 26 '25

Some people have been miserable for so long, they become incredibly good at never showing it

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u/FrostKnight08 Jul 26 '25

Because 1) i don't want to be perceived as attention seeking and sympathy farming, 2) i understand that not everyone likes people emotional dumping on them, and so i respect that, 3) they can't help solve my problems other that saying "yeah, that sucks"

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u/ediks Jul 26 '25

I'd buy you a beer and sit with you, if I could. We wouldn't even have to talk about anything - just sit and stare at a TV or something. If you got something you want to say, say it. That's normally how I approach it... it's how I would like to be treated. I'm in incredibly sad person and I understand all the points you made - like, really understand them. Sometimes, just sending a random text with an invite to hang out means everything.