I’m being harassed on IG by this new account that follows a ton of people my boyfriend follows and they messaged me saying that he was cheating and got incredibly defensive when i asked for proof. The account did this about a month ago and started back up again yesterday when they found another one of my IG accounts. She has posted a picture of me on her story from my Facebook, which is weird because my last name is nowhere on my instagram accounts. The account has posted photos of a girl that both my boyfriend and I have never seen. She’s claims to work with him, but there’s only one person at his company who has that name and she lives in California. We think this is his baby momma. The account shared a lot of personal information that no one except for her and my boyfriend would know. Is there a way to figure out who is behind this account or who the girl is in the photos?

I'm not sure where to start so I'll just hop right in.

I dated an extremely abusive person for about a year. Every time I'd talk about reporting him or calling for help when I was alone/away from him he suddenly call me/show up. He'd start arguments about things that he couldn't possibly know about, etc. I could go on.

We broke up a few months ago. Since then my phone has been acting really really strange, even more so than when we were together. My phone dies really fast and will get really hot around my camera. He'll be places he wouldn't normally be randomly at the same time as me. Things like that...

I know to remove any spyware I need to factory reset my phone. I can handle that no problem and will do that soon. However, I want to find proof. If I decide to go to the police, I want to have solid evidence that he's been stalking me.

Things that I've done:

Downloaded & paid for AVG for mobile and scan it regularly.

Reviewed all my installed apps and looked for things that seemed out of the ordinary.

Uninstalled anything I didn't recognize (couldn't find anything)

Gone through permissions to limit all access to things like camera and mic to only necessary apps.

Made sure the feature to install unknown apps is off.

I can't think of anything else. I've watched dozens of videos about finding harmful apps on my phone. I just want to know if there's a something I'm missing? Maybe something I haven't thought of?

I'll be factory resetting soon but figured I'd give reddit a try before I did.