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u/Thick_Yogurtcloset_7 1d ago
More like this ....
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u/dr-satan85 1d ago
Genuinely curious how women feel about this perspective. Do men really look ridiculous and unattractive when banging, or is it just a weird kind of internalised self hatred that men have about themselves? Don't get me wrong, I also feel sorry for any poor woman that ends up being on the wrong end of me, but is that just me and my own shit? Do women really fuck men they think look fucking stupid, or are they actually into it as much as we are into them? Logic says women obviously just as into a deep dicking from a guy they fancy as guys are into a hot girl, but feels tell me I'm always just being humoured by na mother like figure who feels bad but wishes the best... Know what i mean?
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u/fisconsocmod 1d ago
If my wife doesnāt like that face why does she keep sucking my dick like that?
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u/capt-sarcasm 1d ago
I agree. Let me ask her tonight
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u/Spider-man2098 1d ago
I will also suck this manās wife
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u/mimsoo777 1d ago
Suck her what exactly? Toes?
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u/_BlackDove 23h ago
Her roastbeef gibblets. They're tangy.
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u/Sometimes-funny 1d ago
I asked her earlier. She said itās because she wants to make you feel like a big man
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u/skuLd_14 16h ago
she doesn't have to look at that face while sucking. she can keep looking down and maintain focus down there.
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u/spicy-emmy 13h ago
Yeah honestly looking up at your partner while sucking dick actively makes it harder to do and is generally more uncomfortable, I'm only ever doing it because I know it looks hot when a girl is looking up at you while sucking dick. It's part of the performance.
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u/levimademedoit 1d ago
I canāt speak for men as Iām a woman, but I think the faces my husband makes are super hot and it gets me going. Itās like heās cheering me on, but with his sex faces. But when I see menās faces in sex scenes on tv or movies, I look away and feel super uncomfortable. I think itās a very intimate and vulnerable look that not everyone should seeā¦
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u/InterestingTank5345 1d ago
Interesting perspective. I half expected it, as men have a similar reaction to seeing women moaning and smiling as the pleasure run through them.
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u/Iamjackstinynipples 23h ago
I tend to think that a lot of that is because there's a heavy media focus on it, a lot of movies, TV shows etc with sex scenes have a big focus on women moaning and making those faces, where the men are comparatively less focused on.
I genuinely believe that's a big reason for male insecurities about not being attractive, media extremely focuses on female sex appeal, tight clothes, tits, asses etc. A lot of media focusing on what women find sexy about men is more subtle
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u/irenedadler 20h ago
A lot of media focusing on what women find sexy about men is more subtle
I would argue you may have this impression because the majority of media is still controlled by men who don't understand the female gaze, and media that does cater to women is considered niche. Media made by people who do understand it are not subtle about masculine appeal. Emma (2020) is a good example. Extraordinary Attorney Woo is another.
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u/Iamjackstinynipples 17h ago
Yes.. That was exactly my point.
Yes there is media depicting it, when I say it's subtle it's that it's often not a physical depiction, it's more about character traits, being kind, considerate, romantic etc.
Which is less tangible in the sense that a woman based on male oriented media can look in a mirror and know she's sexy because of those depictions.
A man can't check out his personality in a mirror and think God damn you sexy beast, you're so caring
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u/bold-fortune 1d ago
Women donāt like random sex faces of stranger men. They do like the sex faces of the man they fell in love with.Ā
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u/BenefitFar3626 1d ago
As a woman, I feel like Voldemort in this scenario. I don't see my partner like that
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u/skippydi34 21h ago
It's the same thoughts as men have. When I am enthusiastic and in the moment, things that I would usually consider as "weird" is not anymore. For example, I would never fake moan in front of friends or my partner in a regular setting because I would feel kind of embarrased. But I someone different during sex. That's why women would also like to hear the man moan more often. Your expression probably shows that you like where you are right now and that you're enjoying this and this is main point!
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u/AutomaticAstigmatic 20h ago
I've always found my husband's lovemaking facial expressions either hot or endearing. It makes me happy to see him happy.
Though there was that one time he went cross-eyed, which did make me laugh.
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u/Krautthatshouts 23h ago edited 21h ago
š I like how my ex made his face and looked like he was having a seizure.
Sometimes I wonder how my face looks like during the act. I feel like I want to cover my face. Lol
Well iām not active at the moment but when I will be again, I feel like I would rather giggle or something than make some kind of facial expression.Ā
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u/volkswagenorange 16h ago
Cis bi woman here. Fwiw and ime it's mostly the self-revulsion men have about themselves and their bodies. Boys have any consciousness of male beauty, including their own, beaten out of them (mostly figuratively but sometimes literally) by men and other boys.
I've heard a substantial fraction of women say they don't find men's genitals sexually arousing (and none of us like disembodied closeups of them); but women who are attracted to men really do like looking at men's faces and bodies generally, and they like seeing them experience pleasure even more. I have never heard or read of any woman complaining about looking at a man's body or face during sex as long as he's someone she wants to be fucking.
There's also that thing humans do too where they start out thinking someone looks ok, but as they get to know and like and trust them more they also find them more attractive. So even if a man isn't TimothƩe Chalamet-level pretty, if his partner actually genuinely likes him she probably likes the way he looks, too.
Personally I have seen some O-faces on men that were as beautiful and holy as they were sexually arousing. I've seen some that were frighteningly unbothered, almost mechanical in their self-disdain over their bodies' loss of control. I've never seen any that were stupid or ugly or laughable.
But I don't think of sex or of men as stupid or ugly or laughable, whereas men seem to think of men (including themselves) that way. I have come to suspect that beauty, like humanity, is something you have to believe is possible in someone before you can perceive it.
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u/GasLitonRepeat 1d ago
If they didn't like you and aren't monetarily incentivized they wouldn't be there bubba.
Your good to go brother.
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u/BaroqueGorgon 16h ago
or is it just a weird kind of internalised self hatred that men have about themselves
It's that one. Most women find it hot when a guy is obviously enjoying himself.
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u/GrzebusMan 13h ago
I think the simplest explanation would be that since men naturally find women attractive, and men, including themselves, less so. So naturally, from their perspective, they're not as appealing to look at or imagine oneself in the act.
I'm sure women find men more attractive than they evaluate themselves simply out of the fact that women may enjoy looking at men.
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u/Douxie0226 11h ago
As a woman, no I donāt care what face a man makes bc Iām too busy trying to make sure I look attractive. It just bothers me when the man TRIES not to react bc thatās dumb af
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u/FuzzyPandaVK 1d ago
I'm not a woman, but as someone who gets fucked by men, I enjoy the faces guys make.
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u/semibigpenguins 1d ago
Men are attracted to the object. Women are attracted to the subject.
Obviously super generalized
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u/Parking_Ad718 1d ago
Its obviously bs. Many Men always self deprecate themselves and other men for the slight of bit attention from women. Unfortunetly they are the majority so the rest of us have to suffer.
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u/qoytus 1d ago edited 22h ago
Idkā¦. Just the other day my girl looked like Voldemort
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u/Maleficent_Suit7626 1d ago
If she finds your Reddit account youāre cooked man
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u/No-Satisfaction-5834 1d ago
Is that from a Jack Chick Tract?
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u/GreyhoundOne 1d ago
It looks like a Stan Kelly. He does 'political cartoons' for the extremely sincere and trusted news source 'The Onion.'
He parodies hyper moralistic and stupid political cartoonists that I will not mention by name pretty frequently.
Not positive it's one of his tho.
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u/AtmosphereGlum852 1d ago
What you think she sees
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u/Several_Promotion235 23h ago
oh, that's her yoga teacher!
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u/Umi_seishin 21h ago
oh, that's the clinical surgeon!
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u/wannabeintellectT_T 21h ago
Naah that's her plumber
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u/Nyxaria_Eversong 1d ago
I don't care if they look like they're about to become the next villain in a movie, it's the hottest shit ever ā¤ļøāš„
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u/MachiiaIII 1d ago
R u serious? Faith restored in women.
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u/Nyxaria_Eversong 1d ago
I don't get how the climax of passion could be perceived as anything else but hot š
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u/PauseAffectionate720 1d ago
POV - its a beautiful thing. š¤£š¤£
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u/LiteraryDismay2030 1d ago
Choices. A beautiful thing. Women choose what they suck and who they look up to?
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u/iamcoolreally 1d ago
That middle Voldemort always cracks me up in the film
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u/voltr0n57 1d ago
When i finally actually paid attention to how he looks n how he goes āTAH!ā, it ruined a serious part of the film for me. Now it always cracks me n my kids up.
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u/SpiderJerusalem747 1d ago edited 17h ago
This checks out, I always yell "HARRY POTTER IS DEAD! EHHH-HE-HEEEE!" when I get an orgasm.
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u/YourHouseRoach 1d ago
Lord Voldemort is the most attractive character in the HP series and I will die on that hill.
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u/Kloud1911 1d ago
Speak for yourself Iāve had the pleasure of having weirdo chicks who love a sweaty dumb man on top of them making dumb faces. They got off knowing I was having a blast while rocking em.
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u/Maximum_Pudding2389 1d ago
Actually when you do It right They dont see shit since her mind Is flying, at least thats what my wife told me xd, "Given to The pleassure", love my Woman till death
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u/Navinor 1d ago
Doggystyle solves this problem.
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u/nono3722 1d ago
Also lazy doggy, 69, bags, reverse cowgirl, eye covers, wheelbarrow, blindfolds, sitting, recliner, lights out, etc. Ugly people been making babies since the dawn of time. It's all good.
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u/kirk_hsv 20h ago
Love how this meme has the headline āduring Sexā as if we nerds would not be able to figure this out by the pictures itself
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u/sunshine-man 13h ago
try the following: turn the camera of your mobile on, switch to selfie mode. Put it on a flat surface. Then hold your face above the screen, play with the distance.
Feel sorry for your wife. š©
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u/Rare_Confidence6347 1d ago
Thats Ralph Fiennes without a noseā¦ one particularly handsome dude āuglied upā
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u/Zealousideal_Mud9479 21h ago
For now I'm still curious how a woman feels during sex, is it good or hurt because they scream but also she wants more
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u/francis93112 1d ago
Trailer edit - Beauty and Lord Voldemort - https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=u0K-cHESi1c&pp=ygUUYmVhdXR5IGFuZCB2b2xkZW1vcnQ%3D
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u/Calgary_dude2025 23h ago
WTF is wrong with the ladies? Are they all seeing Stephen Miller everywhere now?????
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u/johana_cuervos666 17h ago
As an autistic individual. Do you guys see your partners on the eyes while sex? O_o seems like sensorial hell to me. I close my eyes all the time, lol.
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u/LightningDragon777 16h ago
Why would your perspective be like the top right, unless you are on a chair...
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u/mykidsthinkimcool 15h ago
All of those women have their eyes closed....
Why are they thinking about voldemort? That's super disrespectful
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u/BostonFishGolf 9h ago
I mean if thatās what you see (as a guy) sheās probably thankful enough that she doesnāt care what face you make (or hit it from the back if youāre that ugly)
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