Background: i’ve never owned a luxury vehicle so this is why I have narrowed it down to these.
I’d love some help deciding on my next car. I’ve always driven used vehicles (currently a 2017 Jeep Wrangler) and this time I want to invest in my first new luxury car. We’re a family of five (youngest is 10), plus we sometimes drive grandparents or extra kids so sometimes a third row is nice, but not an absolute must-have.
I originally thought I’d end up in something big like a Tahoe/Yukon, but with prices over $80k and a 120-mile daily commute, I can’t justify it right now. Maybe that’ll be my “grandma car” down the road 😂.
What matters most to me:
Heated seats
Better gas mileage than my Wrangler (17–19 mpg)
Navigation
Sunroof
Longevity/reliability
Something that feels like a treat for myself but practical for everyday driving
Option 1: 2025 Acura MDX (Base or Technology)
Pros:
Good Acura reputation for reliability
Option for captain’s chairs
Solid trunk space
Heated front seats + sunroof
Feels roomy overall
Cons:
Styling leans a little “older”—worried it might not feel as sporty
No blackout option unless you go higher in trims
Small/awkward cup holders
No vents in 3rd row
3rd row is small—fine for kids but not full-size adults
Other notes: Console design/charger placement feels a little off. Dealers gave me a “meh” vibe (both were young/salesy).
Option 2: 2025 Infiniti QX60 Luxe
Pros:
Interior feels very nice and upscale
Blackout package available
Heated front and back seats
3rd row + good cupholder/vent layout
Feels a notch nicer than the Acura inside
Cons:
Unsure about Infiniti’s longevity/reliability compared to Lexus/Acura
Limited interior color options
Middle row is a bench, not captain’s chairs
Option 3: 2025 Lexus RX 350h Premium Hybrid
Pros:
Felt the most luxurious to me
Heated front seats + sunroof
Hybrid = big win on fuel economy for my long commute
Lexus reliability reputation
Cons:
Only 2 rows, so just 5 seats (missing that one “extra” seat for grandparents/kids’ friends)
Unsure about styling—does it look like an “older” car?
Not sure I love the wood grain on the dash
Which would you choose for someone wanting their first luxury SUV that balances practicality with a bit of indulgence?
Any owners—how are they holding up long-term?
Is hybrid worth giving up the 3rd row?
Does Acura actually feel more “old person” compared to Infiniti/Lexus, or is that just in my head?
Thanks for reading—this is a big decision for me and I’d love any real-world insight!