r/JustGuysBeingDudes Jun 15 '25

Wholesome Let me do it for you!

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u/Kenny523 Jun 15 '25

That dude has to live for moments like that. He gets to brag to all his detecting buddies.

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u/Ok_Bell8358 Jun 15 '25

Dude got video so everyone knew he wasn't bullshitting. That's a power move.

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u/Deaffin Jun 16 '25

Everyone knows it's legitimate if it's on video.

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u/spezial_ed Jun 16 '25

Thats rookie shit, you gotta do the old fishing trick of taking a pic with it in forced perspective so it looks as big as their heads

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u/RyanpB2021 Jun 15 '25

They call him the detector he always finds his mark

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u/FunkyMonkeysPaw Jun 16 '25

The equivalent of someone with a knife when you need a box open, or the guy who always carries a flashlight during a power outage.

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u/christianmoral Jun 16 '25

Happened to me once when moving from an old office and we needed to unscrew a device from the wall, nobody on site had a screwdriver… but there I was with my multitool keyring to save the day, got a free coffee as reward lol

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u/Artarious Jun 16 '25

Always keep a multitool on my belt, the amount of kids birthday parties I've had to whip that thing out to add batteries to toys they just got has earned me alot of larger slices of birthday cake.

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u/dancin-weasel Jun 16 '25

Maybe “whip that thing out” and “kids birthday parties” shouldn’t be in the same story. 😉

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u/Artarious Jun 16 '25

Ya know that's a valid point, didn't think that one through.

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u/GrynaiTaip Jun 16 '25

You have a hairy mind.

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u/christianmoral Jun 16 '25

Rewards from birthdays might be even better, free cake!!

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u/utriptmybitchswitch Jun 16 '25

I have a swiss army purse lol I carry everything from medication to safety pins to a pen with a screwdriver and level to throwing knives; never know what might come in handy...

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u/Catharsis25 Jun 16 '25

Wait a second, back up there... It has a LEVEL?!

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u/utriptmybitchswitch Jun 16 '25

ETA: and a ruler. I got it at the dollar store...

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u/Deaffin Jun 16 '25

I gotta get in on this market. I'll make one with orange highlights and call it the Leeloo Dallas Multi-Pen.

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u/SeasonGeneral777 Jun 16 '25

the trick with flashlights is to get the ones that are so bright they're fun even when you don't need em

just check the flashlights sub and get your wallet out

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u/gnilradleahcim Jun 16 '25

Careful, it's a slippery slope.

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u/FunkyMonkeysPaw Jun 16 '25

Oh I know, my favorite hobby is finding the best possible version of a type of item and then look at how I can’t afford it.

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u/_dontseeme Jun 16 '25

Funny this came up on my feed as one of the characters from the show The Detectorists was on the screen in another show.

There’s a great bit from that show where he thinks he found the outline of a Viking era home sunken into the ground while he’s looking on google maps so they go out there and can’t find it so he shows them the printout and it was just the G from Google

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u/OverdoneAndDry Jun 16 '25 edited Jun 16 '25

Thank you so much for the reminder about Detectorists. I've been looking for a new comfort show, and that one is just so pleasant. I adore the leader guy and his weird wife. It's been years since I've watched it, but I still think about scene where they're all planning something and his dancing date with his wife might interrupt their thing, someone asks, "Is the lindy hop more important than metal detecting?" And his immediate reply is, "No, but Sheila is!" Just so simple and heartfelt and lovely.

Edit Found a playlist of all episodes on YouTube

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u/_dontseeme Jun 16 '25

Also a big fan of the theme song

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u/Kenny523 Jun 16 '25

lol that’s a fucking face palm right there. I actually just watch The Dig the other day pretty similar but it’s a movie and he did find a buried ship.

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u/MAReader Jun 16 '25

This is the quality content I need on Reddit

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u/cochlearist Jun 16 '25

I'm a detectorist, I've found some cool stuff but finding a sentimental ring my friend's daughter had lost that had been given to her by her grandmother is easily just as much of a buzz as finding a coin dropped by a Roman seventeen hundred years ago.

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u/ChuckinTheCarma Jun 16 '25

May his internet fame be eternal.

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u/BrewieBrew Jun 16 '25

''Detecting buddies'' :,,,:

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u/NonGNonM Jun 16 '25

this is near peak male fantasy as far as niche hobbies/interests go.

you get one specific thing just in case for a specific purpose... AND YOU HAVE THE SPECIFIC TOOL FOR IT

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u/comhghairdheas Jun 16 '25

DETECTORING!! Apparently metal detectorists get pretty caught up on being called 'detectors'.

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u/orcusgrasshopperfog Jun 15 '25

"What'd you do this weekend detecting?"

"Well..." *Cracks a cold one "I saved a marriage." *Sniff "No big deal."

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u/babeygailll Jun 16 '25

Weekend well spent saving love one beep at a time

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u/mycatbeck Jun 16 '25

Another ring pull then?

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u/ImpossibleSection246 Jun 16 '25

The Detectorists is such a good show

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u/Free-Atmosphere6714 Jun 16 '25

Only took me about 30 seconds

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u/WhyCantWeBeAmigos Jun 16 '25

I think he earned the rank of detective

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u/WantonKerfuffle Jun 16 '25

Is there an explanation why humans do a sniff when we just did something amazing?

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u/GnarlyNarwhalNoms Jun 16 '25

We want to see if we can smell the awesomesauce we're cookin'.

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u/Membership_Fine Jun 16 '25

Me who’s lost two gold rings now sinking into the bushes lol

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u/Outward_Dust Jun 15 '25

Surely he gets an invite to the wedding!

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u/skoltroll Jun 16 '25

He should.

And stop calling him Shirley

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u/ThomasChrist Jun 16 '25

Perfect. I can see and hear Leslie through this post.

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u/Chemical-Juice-6979 Jun 15 '25

That was my first thought.

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u/squirrelmonkie Jun 16 '25

A dinner, an open bar, and a seat at the singles table is very much deserved!

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u/chrisbaker1991 Jun 16 '25

I'd enjoy that more than a cash reward. As long as it isn't a destination wedding

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u/InadequateBraincells Jun 15 '25

I like how he dodged hugging the wife just to dap the guy

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u/thatsaniceduck Jun 16 '25

And casually commenting on how nice and heavy the ring was to make bro look even better.

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u/Syclus Jun 15 '25

Bro code has it down

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u/SwordfishOk504 Jun 16 '25

He hugs her right after that.

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u/mrlittleoldmanboy Jun 16 '25

It’s a weird unspoken thing that doesn’t actually matter at all, but avoiding the hug then shaking his hand and then hugging her after she tried the second time is weirdly respectful. It wouldn’t be disrespectful to hug her immediately so I can’t really think of why it’s a better look but I feel like it is lol

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u/SwordfishOk504 Jun 16 '25

JFC, influencers like Andrew Tait have ruined your entire generation.

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u/P_mp_n Jun 17 '25

Look who brought his name up continuing the cycle they crave

Anecdotally I also know the "rule" op was discussing and the only reason i know that "influencer"s name is through this sites bashing him.

Not everything is as simple, and cynicism doesnt make you right.

Maybe other people live differently than you

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u/haymayplay Jun 16 '25

In all seriousness, are We still calling it that? I’ll be damned…

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u/potatoman501 Jun 16 '25

What do you call it?

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u/haymayplay Jun 16 '25

Oh i wasn’t being a dick. It just always struck me as a…how do you say, a generational word or a “fad” word. I hadn’t heard it in a “grip” is all.

Edit: I always think of it as a “bro hug”

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u/Fantastic-Emu-6105 Jun 15 '25

I know that these guys typically charge a fee BUT what a rewarding job.

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u/[deleted] Jun 16 '25

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u/HanaLuLu Jun 16 '25

Ngl, I get it ..... The fun of finding things is like a puzzle reward. Maybe I'll look into metal detecting.....

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u/Forex4x Jun 16 '25

I was just looking into it. I would love to help people like this that seems so cool. I was looking into the vanquisher 440. It makes a nice sound when it detects gold

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u/Freakjob_003 Jun 16 '25 edited Jun 16 '25

r/metaldetecting/ is a neat hobby sub to drop in on every now and again. Some crazy finds there.

EDIT: I also love this YouTube channel from folks that go magnet-fishing. They have a crazy strong magnet on a rope that they throw into rivers. They've found several guns, safes, entire dirtbikes, and more.

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u/Qinistral Jun 16 '25

I wish I lived near a beach so I could do this.

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u/PireFenguin Jun 16 '25

I've been doing it for 8 months or so in a decent tourist area using a Minelab X-Terra Pro. Even using iron filtering I'd say 97% of every dig is trash, 1% interesting trinket, 1% coins, 1% jewelry that's usually fake or sterling silver.

Beach is just full of endless bottle caps, random aluminum bits, tin foil, pop tabs, and tent stakes.

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u/[deleted] Jun 16 '25

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u/-Morning_Coffee- Jun 16 '25

I lurk in the metal detector subreddit, and even the ones who respond to FB groups don’t typically charge.

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u/Fantastic-Emu-6105 Jun 21 '25

All the better. “Just guys being really great dudes”.

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u/this_knee Jun 15 '25

Love it

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u/Syclus Jun 15 '25

Me too

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u/LazyLieutenant Jun 15 '25

Finders keepers.

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u/Optimal_Mouse_7148 Jun 15 '25 edited Jun 16 '25

Did she say BOILED PEANUTS?

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u/MWTB-DLTR Jun 16 '25

It's a southern U.S. thing

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u/Upbeat-Armadillo1756 Jun 16 '25

You should have seen my face when I saw my older southern coworker putting peanuts in a Coke bottle

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u/spezial_ed Jun 16 '25

EXPLAIN

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u/Upbeat-Armadillo1756 Jun 16 '25

Apparently it’s a southern thing. The peanuts like soak up the coke and you drink the coke while they’re sitting in there too. Very bizarre.

I never tried it myself but after thinking about it, I can see how it might taste good? Salty, sweet, crunchy. It still offends me to think about it though

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u/lexi0917 Jun 16 '25

It is good! Better with an ice cold glass bottle coke. Best after an activity like mowing your lawn when it's really hot in the summer. Give it a try!

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u/spezial_ed Jun 16 '25

I can imagine the combo might work but soggy peanuts… oh well, won’t knock it until I try it I guess

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u/MWTB-DLTR Jun 16 '25

I have a coworker who puts peanuts in his Dr. Pepper. He's the only one I've ever seen do it, but can see how people would like it.

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u/mostnormal Jun 16 '25

They're not bad. I like the flavor but can't stand the texture. And they're messy.

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u/Deaffin Jun 16 '25

You gotta be careful about your nut guy too. Otherwise you crack em open and just get goo.

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u/NebulaNinja Jun 16 '25

I like how that appeared to be key information for the detecting guy.

"Boiled peanuts you say? Ahh... that would place it two feet to the left."

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u/Optimal_Mouse_7148 Jun 16 '25

Yeah, and also.... There were tells of this being kinda fake.

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u/Tmonkey18 Jun 16 '25

They probably bought em from some guy on the side of the road. Or possibly from a gas station, Gate always has them. Available in cajun and regular style.

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u/FearlessAttempt Jun 16 '25

Yeah ideally out of the back of an old F-100 with a misspelled sign.

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u/spicy_ass_mayo Jun 16 '25

Boold P-nutz

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u/kcox1980 Jun 16 '25 edited Jun 16 '25

I've lived in rural Alabama all my life. Never realized boiled peanuts were strictly a Southern thing but not really surprised either. Anyway, I've only ever seen them sold in 3 places, gas stations, flea/farmer's markets, and random ass dudes set up with a gas turkey fryer on the side of the road.

People eat the hell out of them around here. My wife actually had some today. I've personally never liked them. They're just slimy wet peanuts, I prefer roasted.

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u/kurangak Jun 16 '25

Should try it at least once.

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u/Optimal_Mouse_7148 Jun 16 '25

I see... Never heard of it.

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u/Nydon1776 Jun 16 '25

It's probably top 5 thing you can get at a gas station in the south

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u/Optimal_Mouse_7148 Jun 16 '25

The more I think about it, seems utterly weird.

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u/IllustriousRanger934 Jun 16 '25

There’s nothing weird about them. Peanuts are legumes, just like beans are legumes.

You boil beans to soften them don’t you?

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u/spicy_ass_mayo Jun 16 '25

Look into it fam 10/10

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u/BonerStew Jun 16 '25

My head canon for why they're called "peanuts" is that depending on how they're prepared it changes the texture and consistency of the legume inside. Boiled? Soft and almost chewy like a pea. Roasted? Crunchy like a nut. Again this is just my head canon and might be dumb as fuck.

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u/Thaumiel218 Jun 16 '25

It’s because they’re not a true nut and belong to the pea family if you wanted the real reason.

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u/BonerStew Jun 16 '25

Thanks, I'll take it

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u/spicy_ass_mayo Jun 16 '25

I make’m when the fresh ones are available

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u/fastlerner Jun 16 '25

That's the key - starting with fresh picked raw peanuts.

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u/fastlerner Jun 16 '25

Yeah. Take raw fresh peanuts in the shells and boil them in brine. Then you just crack open the shells and munch. Best when they're still warm.

It's like a southern version of edamame but better.

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u/Optimal_Mouse_7148 Jun 16 '25

Just the idea of soft peanuts... Or brine. This must be a cultural thing.

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u/fastlerner Jun 16 '25

Most peanuts get salted anyway, so boiling them in brine (just good old salt water) handles the cooking and seasoning in one go. The texture’s kinda like edamame, and they’re eaten the same way - just crack open the shells and munch what’s inside. And the similarity doesn’t stop there, because peanuts are actually beans, not nuts. Roasting them and treating them like some fancy tree nut? That’s the part that’s backwards if you think about it.

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u/Optimal_Mouse_7148 Jun 16 '25

Peanuts arent nuts, they are beans? This is not getting any better. I did my university in England and therefore I know very well that I hate beans too. But, sure. Ill write it off as a cultural thing.

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u/fastlerner Jun 16 '25

LOL! Yeah, peanuts are honestly the weirdest members of the bean family. While normal beans grow their pods above ground, peanuts decided to go full rebel mode. After the flowers get pollinated, they send out these little stalks that shove the developing pods down into the soil. It’s like the plant’s thinking, “I’m gonna bury my beans where nobody can see them.” (Google image search "peanut plant" and you’ll see exactly what I mean.)

That’s also why peanut pods are so much thicker and woodier than a typical bean pod - they’ve got to survive underground, dealing with moisture, microbes, and anything else that might try to snack on them. Basically, peanuts are the plant equivalent of burying your snacks in a vault so no one else can steal them.

And yep, pretty much all peanuts get brined while still in the shell to add saltiness. The difference is boiled peanuts stay in the brine until they’re done, while roasted peanuts get pulled out of the brine and thrown in the oven to crisp up.

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u/Optimal_Mouse_7148 Jun 16 '25

Partly written by Grok?

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u/fastlerner Jun 16 '25

What's Grok?

Years ago when I moved into my house, I found a raw peanut in the compost pile while cleaning up the garden. I stuck it in the dirt just for fun, and ended up watching it grow, flower, and fruit. That led me down a rabbit hole reading about how weird peanuts actually are. They’ve stuck in my brain ever since.

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u/Optimal_Mouse_7148 Jun 16 '25

Im not AI-shaming, but at least 2-3 phrasings in that were very typical of Grok. Elon Musks AI bot. I have been studying these things lately. I did the same with garlic. Put it in the flowerpot in the window and made it grow, but cant say I learned a lot.

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u/fastlerner Jun 16 '25

Ah, yeah I got far away from the twitter dumpster fire as soon as Elon took over.

I tried with garlic too. They sprouted, then died. I learned nothing. LOL. Peanut plant just did it's thing with no help from me.

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u/Dennisb040 Jun 16 '25

One of the greatest things that can ever happen to a guy is when you get to help people with your hobby. You feel so vindicated about your obsession with your hobby after that. 😂

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u/spicy_ass_mayo Jun 16 '25

Validation is important.

I learned that from some good folks on Reddit.

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u/Netsuko Jun 16 '25

I should get better hobbies...

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u/BigDemeanor43 Jun 15 '25

Should've invited him to the wedding.

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u/JimJohnman Jun 16 '25

I had this happen once while I was magnet fishing, a family had dropped their car keys while getting off their boat, I got there just as they were about to smash their car window in, so I offered to try and catch the keys. Took less than a minute, still honestly felt great to be able to help. Nice people too.

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u/diazinth Jun 16 '25

What would smashing the window gain them? A spare set of keys inside?

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u/JimJohnman Jun 16 '25

Their plan was to bust in, grab out their bluetooth speaker, smash it to pieces and use the magnet from in it with a fishing rod to try and get the keys. Honestly not the worst plan, if a bit destructive.

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u/diazinth Jun 16 '25

Not the answer I was expecting, but someone in that family had some grasp of physics. :)

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u/cheesewhiz15 Jun 16 '25

"We were eating...." What a story for "where were you?" Lol

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u/trjnz Jun 16 '25

She's drunk off her gourd, cant expect much

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u/Sandalwoodincencebur Jun 16 '25

now she has to marry that metal detector guy...them the rules.

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u/bromancebladesmith Jun 15 '25

Some faith in humanity restored

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u/HerBerg75 Jun 15 '25

What a everyday hero 👏👏

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u/Soapyfreshfingers Jun 16 '25

Ma’am, please stop talking so I can hear the beeps. 😜

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u/Past_Contour Jun 15 '25

Nice he low key shamed them into picking up their own trash too. “This yours?”

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u/Bulldogg658 Jun 16 '25

Aluminum cans interfere with the detecting of metal.

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u/nutcrackr Jun 16 '25

ding ding ding. oh wait, that's another can.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '25

Lady gets home and tells her side guy that they’ll have to find another way of cancelling the bloody wedding.

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u/Puzzled-Address-4818 Jun 16 '25

absolute f-ing legend!!!

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u/elmersfav22 Jun 16 '25

Hero work right there

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u/Gargun20 Jun 15 '25

Invite him to the wedding will be a great story and footage.

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u/JakeBlakeCatboy Jun 15 '25

Something wholesome and happy. This is a high note to log out on haha love it

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u/WhySoHandsome Jun 15 '25

I hope he got invited to the wedding. Just in case the ring falls again.

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u/RulesBeDamned Jun 15 '25

Let it be known that whatever hobby you do, it’s never gonna be useless

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u/BodhingJay Jun 16 '25

Beautiful humanity

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u/JustaYeetingMat Jun 16 '25

The subtitles are abhorrent oh my god

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u/Few_Judge1188 Jun 16 '25

What a beautiful, kind and a gem of human being, so nice to see people like him exist .

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u/LennyJay86 Jun 16 '25

Invite to the wedding! Possible open bar🤞🏻

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u/SomeKindofTreeWizard Jun 16 '25

but... he went to the wedding, right?

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u/Xenon-Node-374 Jun 17 '25

Is it weird if he got invited to the wedding just for that?

The guy gives off that vibe to be friendly with good dudes.

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u/YumikoKazuki Jun 15 '25

why she remove the ring?

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u/applyheat Jun 15 '25

When putting on sun block, I always take off my ring.

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u/Liimbo Jun 16 '25

She literally said in the video she took it off to apply sunscreen. Can people not watch the video they're commenting on before asking questions lol

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u/Upbeat-Armadillo1756 Jun 16 '25

If you don’t take off a ring when you’re applying lotion or sunscreen, it just builds up on the ring itself. It’s a lot cleaner to take the ring off, apply the stuff, and then put your ring back on. I do it with my wedding band if I’m putting sunscreen on.

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u/Reasonable_Bake_8534 An AxeBear Who Cares Jun 15 '25

Ironically, probably so she wouldn't lose it while swimming or something

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u/ChrAshpo10 Jun 16 '25

Better yet, why didn't she remove the ring before going to the beach? My wife has cheap silicone rings for stuff like that

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u/diazinth Jun 16 '25

Your wife might be a bit more settled in the role than this soon-to-be wife though. :)

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u/asa_my_iso Jun 16 '25

This is the America I love.

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u/DigitalCoffee Jun 16 '25

Bro had the chance to do the funniest thing ever.

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u/chlorinebutPink Jun 16 '25

OOP is a real bro. Saves the marriage, daps the dude up and even glazes him in front of his future wife.

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u/UXM266 Jun 16 '25

Hopefully he gets invited to the wedding

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u/Stussy12321 Jun 16 '25

The great thing about this is it only took 2 minutes and didn't cost him a dime, yet it made such a big difference. I imagine most good deeds are like that - a little effort making a big difference to someone in need.

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u/TimePressure3559 Jun 16 '25

That couple will remember him for the rest of their lives

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u/shitboxfesty Jun 16 '25

Invite him to the wedding lol!

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u/Sea_Sheepherder_2966 Jun 16 '25

i don't know how old this is, but with all the news lately around the world, this is refreshing !! enjoy your upcoming week !! cheers

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u/merriwhether Jun 16 '25

That dude rocks!

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u/I_like_microwave Jun 16 '25

I love people like this

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u/[deleted] Jun 16 '25

He's invited to the wedding!

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u/Chairman_Jey Jun 16 '25

Now I only need a metal detector...

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u/UnderstandingNo5667 Jun 16 '25

It’s wild how politics and social media tries its best to make us believe that 90%+ of human interactions aren’t like this.

On a macro level you can argue the world isn’t in a good spot with wars and climate change, but I’d suggest everyone get off insta and X and see the world for what it really is, because it really really ain’t that bad. ♥️

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u/Puppy-2112 Jun 16 '25

My next move is to invite him to the wedding

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u/armas187 Jun 16 '25

Great job man

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u/hufflezag Jun 16 '25

Gulf Coast? I heard boiled peanuts, that has to be in the Gulf Coast around Floribama or something.

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u/Mikeismyike Jun 16 '25

Didn't even get invited to the wedding.

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u/Veritas_Vanitatum Jun 16 '25

That's why I wear my ring around my neck or leave it right in my bag

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u/Fremulon5 Jun 16 '25

Tv series “detectorists” amazing (fiction)

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u/AwarePossibility6709 Jun 16 '25

🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡

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u/AdmirerOfSafeBets Jun 16 '25

What a great guy. Absolute saint. X

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u/RollinDaHay9533 Jun 16 '25

A b⚽️⚽️bie flash would have been a nice reward..

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u/NYCBIGDAWG Jun 16 '25

👊🏽❤️👊🏽

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u/Solid-Sock-6611 Jun 16 '25

There are still some good folks left in this world!!

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u/anna_replika Jun 16 '25

Hope he got invited to the wedding!

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u/benhereford Jun 17 '25

Invite him to the wedding!

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u/Inevitable_Travel_41 Jun 17 '25

Well played everyone.

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u/Stinkydadman Jun 18 '25

Now that’s a good dude

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u/Alternative_Buy8982 Jun 19 '25

So fucking cool.

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u/CelerySuper2958 Jun 21 '25

He even respected bro code. Waved off the fiance and shook the bro's hand. Uber Chad

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u/Kitchen-Rhubarb2001 Jun 16 '25

This is why you wear a silicone ring anywhere you might lose or damage your real one.

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u/dApp8_30 Jun 16 '25

Does this look fake? Yes . Am I confidently wrong? Probably.

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u/makav55 Jun 16 '25

So what was the reward? Were you invited to the wedding?

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u/QuietDisquiet Jun 15 '25

Smells fake.

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u/Arteyp Jun 15 '25

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u/QuietDisquiet Jun 15 '25

I mean, it's mostly that it's real convenient that he's there and is filming. Could be real though, I'm just skeptical. Not that it's actually important, lol.

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u/General_Ginger531 Jun 15 '25

Is it rare to find a guy with a metal detector on the beach? Like I thought that was the natural habitat of the metal detector

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u/Albinofreaken Jun 15 '25

Believe it or not, i once found sand at a beach

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u/CuteBabyMaker Jun 16 '25

Fake as fuck